Actually, I don't think this woman is talking about 3 different people. She says "Today I realized", I don't think that she'd just now be realizing that she had 3 different people in her life. She is speaking of 1 man - her husband. I believe she is saying that her husband is not the man that she was once in love with and wanted to be with, he has changed and she has changed. I also believe that maybe she has tried hard to accept him and work on the problems/changes that they are enduring, but he is just not willing to accept or work on anything. Maybe he is totally defendant of his changes and don't think he is wrong in any way. Her husband is not the man she wants him to be or thought he would be and the man that wanted to be with her is lost under what ever troubles they may be facing or maybe he is just too damn stubborn to grow up and work on their marriage. Who really knows? Only she does. When I read this it hit home for me. My husband isn't the man he promised to be when we were married, he is totally manipulative and selfish and only wants me when I give in to thinking his way. He's also not the parent he should be either. We've been married 5 years. We dated 4 years before getting married and I should have seen it coming. The saying "Love is blind" doesn't necessarily pertain to a person's attractiveness. So, FML as well. I'm sure some of you will ignorantly and childishly say, YDI. But, WTF ever it just shows your immaturity and ignorance. People can think FML for whatever reason, this is a place to just get it off your chest and silently vent. There are no rules that it has to be funny.

Two words.... FOUR-SOME

In my opinion you deserve it for not giving the man who wanted you a chance, though your life still does suck!

I feel you. I'm on the opposite end of that same deal.

get married, get a restraining order, and get a divorce.

... I feel the need to slap at least half the people here. 1) She's married to her husband because she used to love him and thought the relationship would last. Which is exactly the reason people marry. 2) Some dude wants her. She doesn't want him. So don't tell her to give him a chance. 3) She obviously stated that her husband doesn't want her. Or there would only be two different people. 4) Number 3 means that their marriage isn't working out. Which is no big deal, because there is a thing called divorce. We're in the 21st century for crying out loud. 5) She fell in love with someone else. Boohoo, go cry in a corner and stop judging her. I bet she didn't want it to happen. 6) OP, just go for it. If you want the guy and your marriage is over anyway, go for it.

Just be true to yourself and follow your heart! Be smart about what you are doing, and don't cheat on anybody.

YDI... *****.

So if you don't want to be with your husband and he doesn't want to be with you why don't y'all just get a divorce so you can get out there and find someone you actually love.!

Jerry Jerry Jerry!