if you nodded as a response to "do you mind," then it means "yes, i do mind"

Agreed, Taryn. But I just have to add that people don't always go to bars just to hook up. I go out to bars sometimes with my boyfriend, but we've been dating for a while. You're right though, I wouldn't think it was a date if a guy asked me to go to a bar either.

that girk is just a ****, no worries man you will find something better

First of all it would be a really bad idea to do that if she has been drinking. It could easily be turned around saying you raped her. Second you should have just done it before you went out!

Friend zone ftw

Chaos, I agree that it's a douchey thing to do to ditch your friends to have a random ****, but she did ask... though I think she should have definitely been a little clearer. Having been ditched by friends before (but the only time for a **** was with boyfriends... I assumed it was a ****), the fact they even asked though is still rather douchey. I mean, come on, they went out to spend time with friends, didn't they? Though of course a bar is usually the pick-up place... I assumed you did it within the same gender if you were looking for ass, and so it was quite a douchey thing to do if they were spending time together as friends. I wouldn't assume it was a date, since it's a bar, but since it was with the opposite gender, it seems to me a lot more like trying to have good times with friends than trying to hook up with strangers. Also pimpin your first post sounded like every guy in the world wants to **** all their girl friends lol

she asked him "do you mind", and clearly he minds. so naturally she went off to find someone else. YDI for not knowing what "do you mind" means.

****

OMG FIRST!!!!! HAHAHA BITCHES BE FASTER NEXT TIME

You deserve it for calling a chic you're interested in a "crush". WTF are you? A 12 year old girl?! ******.