Creepy

By bubba - 17/10/2011 10:02 - China

Today, my boyfriend of 3 years felt comfortable enough with me to disclose that he had previously spent 4 years in a mental institute because he tried to kill his mother. He also told me we will be together forever. I'm scared. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Don't worry, if he wants to be together forever he's probably not planning on killing you any time soon

I cant wait to see his reaction when you guys break up.

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Think of it this way. Since you've been together so long, there hasn't been any huge problems in your relationship. So just dont break up because you think he's insane. And he was let out, so he isnt as insane as he was at least.

Congratulations on stereotyping and villainizing your boyfriend you harpie.

I kinda wanna know if he still talks to his mom...

Did he tell you what the situation was? Four years is more than enough for MOST people to confront and overcome whatever the issue was for them being there. You've been together for THREE YEARS. If you haven't had any red flags before now, what the heck is the problem? Shame on you for being so close minded that you can't accept that everyone comes from different backgrounds. It's not like that would have been an easy thing for him to tell someone, even if he erroneously thought that they would still love and accept him. I hope he dumps you.

mattmadden 0

I bet you'd think differently if you were in OP's situation.

I've BEEN in a similar situation. And I know many other people that have as well.

Remember: every sinner has a future, and every saint has a past. Just be open with him and, most of all, be careful. If he truly has changed, just forget his past. I wish you all the best!

He KILLED his mom. *insertepicfacepalmhere*

andalite 0

Where did you get this from? My girlfriend is NOTHING like my mother. (apart from being a woman of course)

People go to institutions to get better; therefore, as long as he hasn't treated you wrong, you should be fine. However, if you see signs that he may be falling back into that state of mind, you may want to consider asking him to go to therapy: not only for his safety, but for yours too.

This is not going to get better. You should be afraid. That means your intuition works. Find him another girl friend or move.