Date night

By feminist - 17/06/2009 15:25 - Canada

Today, I got into a heated argument at a restaurant with a guy I am seeing because he refused to let me pay for the bill and I thought it was sexist. When he finally agreed, I gave the waiter my card, only to have him return a minute later telling me it was declined. FML
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organismal 0

girl, it's just polite, classy, traditional. get over yourself it's nothing to get in a heated argument about, either. come on, if you offer to pay half and he declines, accept graciously. it makes you seem like less of a bitch.

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britches 0

Wow...there's really no need to get into a heated argument about it.

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tukker 0

****** feminists. Someone tries to do something nice, and you feel the need to act like an idiot, and karma gives you a well deserved kick in the ass.

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BatmanBeezy 0

Its not sexiest...Its polite... The guy was trying to be a gentleman and pay for his dates dinner... You had a gentleman which is hard to find nowadays and you took advantage.... Sad day for you

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whoahanna 0

The guy is trying to do something nice and polite and you go and act like a total bitch, thinking you're doing him a favor? No. Karma's a bitch, and so are you. YDI.

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gravityplanx 0

ok... if the most "sexist" action you have in your life is someone handing you money, then you need to stop complaining or shoot yourself in the face.

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cdj 0

Sorry but you deserved that one. I am a big fan of women's rights and equality, but I know when to pick my battles. I don't always like letting the guy feel like he has to pay, but if he insists multiple times, I let him, it's nice, not sexist. In fact, the next time I usually pay for him. Sometimes guys pay for their dates and sometimes girls pay for their dates. Sometimes I even buy a coffee for one of my female friends, it's not sexist there, not because we're both girls but because it's a nice gesture. It happens, it's courteous. You should really be fighting inequalities in the workplace, law, etc. not when some guy is nice and offers to buy you something.

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jm88 0

So should guys go bat shit crazy if a girl tries to do something nice for them by paying for a meal? ****.

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BulldogQB4 0

YDI. It's not sexism it's manners. Also, never mind, it couldn't possibly be sexism because he never made the impression that he was better because he was a man. He was just trying to do a kind thing and pay for your dinner, Ma'am, please learn what the hell sexism, racism, etc is before you try and open your mouth about it. I guarantee you, you'll get more dates that way.

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xstaticdelta 6

I hope you crawl into a hole and just die

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wowfmlife 0

i hate people like you, youre the sexist one

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Weil 0

Feminists just go around complaining about men. Have you looked at yourselves, morons? Whenever I see a feminist think that a guy holding the door open for them is "sexism", I ******* rage. The feminist movement meant something in 1915. Now it's a load of crap. The man was just trying to be polite to you, and you felt that it was such a crime. Kindly die in a fire.

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