sounds like he did what he felt was necessary. you made your choice he made his. you decided to tell him no and he moved on. at least he told you rather than you becoming the other woman. the truth is, a spur of the moment wedding like that. she'll usually end up taking everything. take solace in that.

Hysterical. And not the original post but the replies. Tell the military? What are they going to do? It isn't illegal to marry someone you barely know. It isn't illegal to get married to someone other than your girlfriend. And to the poster....only overseas does the number of dependents matter to some extent. Stateside the extra you make by have dependents is the same even if you have one dependent or have 10 dependents.

if you weren't gonna marry him when he asked, what's the point of dating him?

reply to number 98 and 111 Because some people like to date a person and get to know them very well before getting married, some people don't want to be married and can have a long lasting loving relationship without that piece of paper. Some people want to finish their education, some people don't want to be too young etc. There are so many reason to be dating without thinking of marriage right away. I think it is smart of the OP.

what a douse!!!!!!! im soooo sorry

aww don't feel bad, my scum boyfriend went on craigslist looking for some skanks too.

More like FHL. The guy is a dumb ass...because; once he gets married to her, she'll basically mooch off of him for however long she wants, then divorce him unless he marries her with a prenuptial agreement, and then take half of all his things, including his pay and his pension of he stays in long enough to retire, even more so. He's a dumb ****. If you put his brain in a bird it'd fly backwards. Why don't you just wait until he's married and then tell him all this? Paybacks a bitch!

wow trashy.

If he's gonna have that attitude, you're better off without him, so count yourself lucky.

Many he is another criegslist killer!?!?!?!?!