Guilt
By Dumped - 18/02/2010 08:58 - United States
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By socialix - 19/04/2015 01:03 - United States - Albuquerque
i don't see the problem. i mean, i'm sorry for you, but you should/would have broken up with her anyway. the only thing you don't get now is the satisfaction of leaving her.
omg dude this happen to me aswell dont wory dude it will be ok
omg dude this happen to me aswell dont wory dude it will be ok
she is dumb for not telling u herself cuz it hurts finding out and if after leaving u and not dating then she loves u butshe is dumb for not telling u herself cuz it hurts finding out and if after leaving u and not dating then she loves u but if she is dating she never loved u. This happened in my relationship but there was no cheating just flirting no physical activiy and we are still together. ur better off with out her
I sadly did this to a past boy friend. I really regret it. I still liked him, ALOT! but I felt SOO guilty. all I did was kiss a girl when I was drunk too. it was super stupid
you guys are all really ignorant. It was because she cheated on him that she felt so guilty and shameful and so she felt that she can never be close to him again because of what she did. it wasn't because the relationship wasn't important enough or because she liked the other guy. you boys are so simple minded because you don't even understand your own emotions. you just condemn other people when you probably are not any better. yes cheating is wrong but its much more complicated than what you guys think. you obvious haven't been through enough suffering to understand it and incapable of comprehending such a complex emotion.
I agree whole-heartedly. If she was being honest about how guilty she felt, I can see where she would feel like she wouldn't be able to be close to him again, or even feel that he deserved someone a hundred times better than herself and wouldn't be able to stay in a relationship with that feeling. It sucks, but I think it's a legitimate reason.
Thats exactly how my last relationship ended. I even forgave him.
@157 ands 158: She got drunk and spread her legs for another guy despite having been in a relationship--so it's a damn good thing she feels guilty, because otherwise she'd be a heartless bitch (not that she isn't right now). Maybe instead of pulling the whole guilty-victim crap and cheating on the OP, who then tried to talk to her about it, she could have thought about not getting so trashed she would sleep with another guy. Because then, you know, she wouldn't have anything to feel guilty about. I don't care if the cheater feels guilty, the desrve it and more because cheating shows a lack of respect, lack of thought and lack of affection on the cheaters part. FYL, OP.
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Wow, this sucks a lot (especially if you really loved her), but it's a good thing that you broke up...cheating shouldn't be tolerated and she should feel guilty for what she did. I'm not sure if I would have the strength to give a guy another chance if he cheated on me.
Fail.