I'm not worthy

By dracer - 04/02/2010 02:17 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of three years who I helped through drug rehab and find employment in my office left me for someone else. His explanation was that now that his "head is not clouded with chemicals" and he "makes decent money", he wants to settle down with someone worthy of him. FML
I agree, your life sucks 41 012
You deserved it 3 981

Same thing different taste

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exceswater 8

send him some drugs... to bring him back...

He's not ****** up for using drugs in the first place. He's a dick for dumping her after she cleaned him up, got him sober, AND helped him get a job where she works. The fact that he justifies his actions by saying that he wants to settle down with someone whose worthy of HIM makes what he did even worse.

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Get him into drugs again. Secretly dropped stuff with notes like "Enjoy this for free. From your wellwisher" and stuff, then lets see how this new chick handles it. All the best!

plainDainty 0

you deserved to get rid of him nuff said

Well, it's true that his personality and tastes may be different than he had back then. It was a calculable risk to make him your boyfriend. You could just be glad that you have no reason to put up with him in such a relationship any more. I might recommend you not take such risks if you don't want to deal with the potential results. You made a decision to help him, not to ensure that he would stay with you for as long as you desired. Unless you would prefer to usurp his will with your own, there is really nothing else you can do but to move on.

What are you upset about? If you're attracted to unemployed drug addicts, I'm sure there are hundreds more in your area for you to hook up with. The problem is that your boyfriend is being logical, and it's something you don't understand. When he was an unemployed drug addict, you established that he was the kind of guy you wanted, and you were the kind of girl he wanted. He's different now... so he no longer wants a girl who wants a drug addict boyfriend. Move on... find another. Or find your self respect and aim a little higher for your next one.

Bdub87 0

He isn't done with drugs, he's just freshenin' up. Lot easier to support a 20 dollar a day habit with a job then a 300 dollar a day habit with no job.

Jerks abound. Move on. Give jerks like that enough rope and they'll hang themselves. The next time you meet someone listen to the first few things they say. Don't make excuses for them. Have a clear idea of what you want in a man. Make a list and check it twice. Living well is the best revenge.

That...is what I call a dickwad. Seriously? After you helping him straighten him out, he says you're not worthy? Hope you find a better man, OP.

notwierdgifted 0

yea he's gonna find someone on his level, that level is below u