That sort of thing just gives women an extra boost of confidence. It sucks but such is the way the world works.

How does that work?

Well if that's the case, she'd be misleading him. Pushups already do that, stuffing it is even worse. If you've got nothing, why worry about it? Not every guy is hugely into boobs (I'm not, I prefer butts). I'd prefer an honest person with nothing to hide than someone trying to mislead me.

Not every girl who wears a push-up bra is trying to "mislead you". Girls with small boobs are often made to feel ashamed of it, so can you really blame them for wanting a bit more self confidence?

#74: i don't wear a push-up bra to mislead people. I do it because it boosts up my self-confidence and makes me feel sexy.

75 - I do blame them for it, because by allowing themselves to feel ashamed for something that isn't their fault. Why feel ashamed of something that is perfectly natural? 80 - You must be pretty shallow if your self-confidence is based on a piece of clothing. Self-confidence should come from within, not on what other people think. I do think they look sexy as hell, but I consider their wearers to be nothing more than eye candy - I won't date someone who needs it in order to feel sexy. Remember, not every guy is into boobs, and their interests do change as they age. Take pride in what's within you, not your outward appearance.

#159, I lost weight and my breast shrunk too. Now I am down to a B from a C. I use it to give my breasts a little lift. Do you also bitch at women who wear make up?

160 - congrats for losing a bit of weight, I'm sure it makes you feel a lot better about yourself :) Regarding make-up, in fact I do, for the same reasons. If I can see it (and I probably can), it's too much. To me, the only time a woman should wear make-up is when she's in a very fancy floor-length dress for a black tie event. Most women fail to realize that "au natural" is far better looking. Most women also cake the makeup on way too thick and it just looks horrible. I'm not opposed to a small amount of cover-up if you're having a bad acne day; however, it had better not be obvious. And seriously, why would you even want to put that crap on your face anyway? Half of the ingredients used in modern make-up are really bad for your skin.

162- So, rather than blame the people who made them feel ashamed about it, you blame them for allowing themselves to feel ashamed? I hate that kind of attitude. It would make more sense to teach people not to shame others about their appearance rather than to bitch at people who have been made to feel insecure by others. Also I doubt many women care about your opinion on makeup. Lots of women wear makeup because they *personally* like the way it looks, it really isn't up to you decide what someone puts on their face or down their top.

173 - when you were in school, were you ever bullied? If so, you were likely taught not to let anything the bully said/did go to your head and to not let it bother you. People with enough self-esteem can't be bullied because they simply won't give in to it. This is no different. As for make-up, my statement about it being bad for the skin is a fact, not an opinion, that's why I tell people not to wear it. If they choose not to listen, so be it, but they're putting themselves at risk by doing so.

174- no, I wouldn't say I've ever been bullied. I've been teased of course, but not bullied. Yes I think it's a good idea to tell people being bullied to try to not let it get to them, and it's a good idea to try and raise their self esteem. But that isn't the same thing as berating them for doing things like stuffing their bras and wearing makeup. For a lot of people, blaming them for being the victim of bullying or teasing is just going to lower their self esteem even further. Telling someone to ignore a bully is fine, but actually BLAMING them for being ashamed is a whole different thing.

What if someone just wears a push-up bra because they like the way it looks? They don't have to be doing it to mislead anyone. In fact, I think if someone is "misled" to the point of commenting by a woman's push-up bra, then it just shows their own issues with women. I'd stay away, that's for sure.

#162, I think it is hilarious how you go from insulting #80 who you have never met by saying she is shallow for saying push up bra's make her feel self confident, then try to save face by congratulating her on her weight loss.