Kinda heartless, but OK

By Anonymous - 30/06/2021 16:01

Spicy
Today, it’s been almost a month and a half of no intimacy between my boyfriend and me. To spice things up, I started going down on him. He burst out crying after a couple of minutes because he "misses his sister." The funeral was nearly 2 months ago already. FML
I agree, your life sucks 441
You deserved it 3 143

Same thing different taste

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Oh no, not TWO MONTHS. Wow, he should totally be over the death of his sister by now, jeeze. No seriously, are you an idiot?

He obviously needs more time to heal from his grievances. You should also note that a death in the family is a wound that will NEVER heal to 100%. It's also very selfish of you to value intimacy over your man's feelings such as grief. Very deplorable on your part, ma'am. Apologize and either support him or leave him alone until he's ready.

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dude, it's his sister. don't be so heartless. I wouldn't be okay for a long long time if I lost my brother. talk to him about it, maybe he's not doing ok

obviously he needs more time to heal. you bitching on FML shows your lack of compassion. I have no sympathy for you.

losiientoo 2

What a sad excuse for a girlfriend

wtf he should be over it by now!!! dump his as!!!

Dissapointment 11

Yeah 100%, sorry for any confusion

You need to be more sensitive. Two months is nowhere near enough time to get over someone's death. And it was his sister for God's sake. Show some empathy.

I hope he dumps your heartless self. If you can’t be kind and patient to someone you love after they lost their SISTER, then you don’t deserve them. Period.