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Also note that dom/sub play can be therapeutic. A lot of men and women who play sub have a lot of stress in their lives, and they fantasize in a way where they don't have to be in control, and can have others tell them what to do rather than the other way around. As for those who play dom, some may feel powerless or "controlled" in their lives may fantasize about "taking charge" in a sexual setting. Since someone with a high stress job can't exactly quit and have no stress, their stress can be relieved in an outlet that is appropriate, as long as all participants consent. As for rape fantasy, it is a completely normal and healthy fantasy, again about control, whether trying to take it or be relieved of it. This does not mean that someone who fantasizes about it, either as the sub or dom, wants to rape or be raped, it could simply mean that they want to have rough sex in which they play sub/dom, for reasons I have already listed. As long as these are done with a consenting party, there is nothing "wrong" about them. And guess what? Neither is scat, even if one isn't into it (I for one, am not. But I respect other people's right to be into whatever fetish they want, so long as it's consensual.)

uh I have no comment

First reasonable, mature, AND informative comment. Kudos to you iloverichardhell.

he's stupid , that can cause someone to black out

I choke my girlfreind all the time she loves it

Duude thats hot, id let my boyfriend choke me during sex ;)

Duude thats hot, id let my boyfriend choke me during sex ;)

hahahaha

To 18- its sexy cuz a lil bit of pain brings a lot of pleasure ;)