Leave me alone

By re2K5 - 25/07/2009 16:39 - Korea Republic of

Today, I passed a homeless person asking for change. When I politely apologized and told him that I had none, he yelled angrily, "Who comes to this city without money?" I replied, "Apparently, you do." Wrong answer. He followed me, now screaming. FML
I agree, your life sucks 52 193
You deserved it 28 646

Same thing different taste

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I applaud your snappy comeback! I bet I'd have said the same thing, I mean, what right does a homeless man have to complain about people having no money to give him?

Dashiell 0

I heard that homeless people in prime locations can make up to $50,000 a year.

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flyingpan8 0

hahahahahah that was brilliant

Grrr...someone who is actually starving would be greatful to be given food. If they give you a death stare you know they're fakes or just out for booze or drugs. If you really want to help the needy, always give food, not cash.

All these responses and not a single person addressed that this man might have some sort of mental problems that lead to unsociable behavior? Or that perhaps you, too, would be slightly rude and snappy if your life had come to the point where you were begging on the streets for money? Instead, it's all the same line of how the homeless must all be drug addicts or faking. I'm sorry to disappoint, but I have volunteered at a rehabilitation center for the less fortunate. Yes, we had drug addicts. Also, people that had mental/behavioral problems and had simply been abandoned by their families, people that had grown up on the street and didn't have access to other options, and more than a handful of runaway teenagers escaping from poor situations to find themselves in worse (and, in the very, very bad cases - better) places. Most of the drug addicts I know have the means to afford health care to help subsidize those pills they pop. Of course, I now work in an upper class area and I suppose the fact that at twenty five their parents still give them an allowance of $250 a week PLUS they had the advantage of an amazing school system PLUS the social network and support to get a job, find a place to live, and generally just succeed in life despite doing very little makes them better than those mistreated and forgotten by society. Of course, I see it so clearly now. I'm not saying that you have to give money to every individual you come across that asks. I don't always, especially being a young female - I'm smart enough not to take out and flash around money when I'm alone or at night. I know that people on the street do lie and use money for things we might deem as "unnecessary". I also know that I am fortunate enough to be in a position where I can afford a certain level of humanity, even when I can't (or simply won't) financially give anything. I'm saying that, seeing as you had the advantage in the situation, would it have been so terrible to have been polite even in the face of rudeness? (Actually, while what you did made me cringe, you could have been having a bad day, a bad moment, any number of things. No one is always polite and sympathetic, we're simply human. It's more the level of disdain and ignorance in the comments that upsets me.)

I see and can appreciate all of your points. However, I feel justified in my response. It definitely wasn't an "oh, SNAP!" moment in which I reveled in a victory of having put the homeless community in their place. I was polite, he was rude, and in return, I simply pointed out the fact that he was guilty of the very act he was questioning. Had I two dollars at the time, they both would have been surrendered to him. Never once have I refused to part ways with money because I questioned the intent of the eventual purchase for which it would be used. I don't spit on homeless people, I don't ignore them, and I certainly don't think that they're all drug addicts, but I also don't stop at every one of them that I see to enroll them in school or take them to social services to get help in finding a job. A large part of my success is the initiative that I've taken to change my life, and I don't apologize for holding others to the same standard.

Since you say you had drug addicts... why didn't you just encourage them over the edge? We don't need homeless addicts wandering the streets. Cleaning up the streets of the world sounds like a good thing to me (and by that I mean encouraging them to commit suicide, letting them die as opposed to helping them, or "accidentally" slipping them too much morphine) .

What I meant to say in my little note at the end, actually, was that I didn't blame you. Like I said, everyone gets snappy and has off moments. It's the replies to the topic that I found disturbing.

stab him. it's not like anyone will miss his worthless ass.

AnaMaree 0

YDI for talking to a homeless person. You should've just walked away.

rustyrox 0

bums don't grasp the concept of credit cards...

Awesome comback!! I'll use that next time on a hobo =)

Amazing comeback. I would normally say ydi but bow I say fyl

OH GOD I LIKE THIS SO HARD WHAT WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE GO HOME