Dude that really sux, same thing happend 2 me lol

Sry buddy, im planning on telling my best friend soon too. Hopefully everything works out :P

Happend to me to hahha sucks dosent it?

Lmao. This made me LOL. I think she WAS caught off guard and used humor to avoid her true feelings? Better luck next time, though. :)

Im about to do the same thing this friday we have been friends for 2 years now. The only reason i didnt tell her sooner was she had a BF when i first meet her. Now that she is single we have been hanging out alot so im gonna just tell her how i feel so i dont get my hopes up my just keeping silent about my feeling towards her. If she dont feel the same about me im fine just being friends with her.

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Damn dude, I can relate. The girl I like and had been friends with for a little under a year told me the same thing a couple hours after she said yes when I asked her out. Its tough but you just gotta try and keep going on.

#60,61,66 mad respect for you guys, good decisions and advice. It sucks to be stuck in the friend zone but remember your the one who got yourself there and either you can wait for her or move on and keep her as your freind. Honestly just live by what i live by. I rather regret the things i have done instead of not regretting them at all. So i think you should tell her you meant love as in a lover and not a friend or you might regret the what if for the rest of your life.

I've had that same thing, I was best friends with this girl for years and then I started to fall for her, told her how I felt and turned out she felt the same way, but she had a boyfriend and she couldn't decide which one of us she wanted. Her boyfriend dumped her, I comforted her, after a few months we made it official that we were a couple, we went out for about 4 months, I lost my virginity to her and she said how much she loved me, how perfect I was and that I was the only one she ever saw a future with, she said we were soulmates etc. I was deeply in love with her. Then one day out of no-where she said she misses me as a friend and broke up with me. That was about a month ago, I haven't spoken to her since and I feel like shit every day, can't stop thinking about her etc. The few months we were together were the best of my life and I wouldn't change anything. Point is from my experience, It may work out. But things get awefully complicated when circumstances change. If you don't think you can deal with the pain of losing her all together, just stay friends, if you think you can, go for it. I'm finding it hard but hey, if I had to do it again, I would do it all the same, knowing that I would eventually lose her all together. Just because she made me so damn happy.

That's the ultimate no go for you.