Wat are u a saint

I got nervous the first time my gf went down on me. Performance anxiety and such (actually difficult to achieve a boner). but yeah just tell how you feel and that you were just nervous assuming thats the case. if you're penis is small. well in the case of bj's doesn't matter that much. just explain to her what happened. if you were willing to go down on her then there's no way she's "inadequete" that being said. like other guys said. dont deny a *******. i sure as hell never have.

Just tell her why you got embarrassed. Communication is key in any relationship.

Well just tell her the truth and if she is not a total bitch she will not only understand but probably think its cute

Marry me. Please.

Why were you embarrassed son?

She'll get over it eventually. If you feel uncomfortable, she should understand that, not saying that you're a jerk.

You turned down a ********? Shame on you!

Bad move, OP ): Should have just let her, or give her a valid reason (you hadn't showered for awhile, for instance) why you didn't want her to go down on you. If it were me getting told not to go down, I'd too assume I sucked at it (no pun intended) and would never try again...

that was actually sweet of you though... she shouldn't be calling you a jerk :|