I think you are right and depending on how far they are in the relationship he may not want to explain why yet. Good to know more guys care about the hygiene before a girl has to say something. I think more women would be willing if more men were as considerate.

Why didn't you just let her give you a bj?

Did you explain to her why? Why exactly were you embarrassed? If it was from smell then every guy should be considerate enough to not let a woman give him a bj if he isnt exactly fresh lol. If you were embarrassed for a different reason then I really dont know what to say. But I hope it gets better!

You blew it!

Heck, she should just lay back and get her treat! Don't get all fussy because you can't get a dong in your mouth.

Baby penis

Cool that you're willing to give the BJ's as well ;)

Bro I know how you feel

Should've just taken the bj OP.

Time to start enjoying each other - and talking about what you feel & want. If you can write this FML about being embarrassed, you should have te guts to tell your GF as well and clear up the misunderstanding. Nothing sucks more than thinking you did something wrong (or being inadequate) when you are not