Work, Awkward and Intimacy: Nice guy

Nice guy

By LucklessNiceGuy - 05/12/2011 07:22 - United States

Today, I was fired from my job on account of "sexual harassment" toward female employees. The harassment? Jokingly offering them foot massages when they were complaining about how their feet ached after a long shift, and complimenting them about their appearance when they felt down. FML

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By Anonymous - 30/10/2018 15:30

Today, I was fired from my job for sexual harassment. I was shopping after work, and I had to get my female manager to give me a package of extra-large condoms from the lockbox. I could not convince her that I was not flirting, and she took it to HR. FML

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Tactical

By Anonymous - 03/08/2009 14:50 - United States

Today, I got fired from work. Why? I finally took a stand for myself and confronted my coworker of writing things up in my name for herself, and it getting deducted from my check. So she went to the manager and accused me of sexual harassment. FML

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By 123literateABC - 04/11/2015 03:10 - United States - Grand Haven

Today, at work, the janitor would not stop telling me how good I looked. This was after he told me he was fired for sexual harassment at his last job. He clearly learned that lesson. FML

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By Anonymous - 26/02/2014 21:44 - Canada - Edmonton

Today, I had to give a sexual harassment seminar to my department. Someone put in a complaint that my example made them feel uncomfortable. FML

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Leech

By upyours - 22/05/2020 17:00 - Australia

Today, after telling my boss that trailing a hand up someone's leg and leering at them constantly is counted as sexual harassment, I got called an "unappreciative little whiny bitch." FML

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By Anonymous - 12/10/2013 06:19 - United States - Avon

Today, my bitchy co-worker decided that being given a compliment on her shoes is sexual harassment, and worthy of reporting me to our boss over. FML

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Unfair

By Anonymous - 23/05/2013 07:24 - United States

Today, I got a call from work stating that my employment was being terminated. This was after being suspended while they investigated my sexual harassment claim. Their reason for firing me: misuse of company time. Yes, I suppose reporting being sexually harassed is a huge waste of time. FML

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By his word vs mine = me suspended - 10/08/2013 18:41 - United Kingdom - Stockport

Today, I was carrying a stack of paperwork at work, when my pen rolled off and onto the floor. As soon as I bent down to pick it up, a nearby co-worker, who's always hated me, accused me of putting on a show and sexually harassing him. He actually followed up by reporting me to HR. FML

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Uncomfortable

By bad timing - 03/09/2019 15:01 - United States - Monterey Park

Today, at work, my manager accidentally bumped into me, brushing my behind with the back of his hand. He was a bit embarrassed, so I jokingly said, “You could at least buy me dinner first!” He went to HR and told them I made him uncomfortable. I was just trying to lighten the mood. FML

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By Disrespectful - 18/01/2017 09:01

Today, my boss fired me for "disrespecting" him after I told him to fuck off. This would be understandable, if I hadn't said it when he was at my house for dinner, harassing my wife with suggestive poses, heavily implied comments, and trying to put his hand on her crotch. FML

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Angelice_fml 0

Monday 5 December 2011 16:21

Ouch, I'm really sorry. ): People take things too far these days.

drawmesunshine 17

Monday 5 December 2011 16:23

Perhaps the male employees felt left out. Maybe at your next job, you should compliment their looks and offer them foot rubs, too. Think of this as a learning experience.

Comments

Teacatt 13

Wednesday 25 November 2015 9:20

The fact you put your name as "nice guy" let's us girls know everything about you.

AudiLover21 13

Saturday 6 February 2016 20:26

This is what happens when you're nice to a girl who doesn't care anything about you. Most girls just think you want something from them when you are that nice.

yahtzeesouls 12

Monday 21 March 2016 20:50

It's probably Anita Sarkeesians's filthy claws infecting their brains with dumbfuck lies. Telling girls they look good is not harassment.

FarFromHome_fml 17

Wednesday 23 March 2016 11:57

Comments on appearance when unwanted are textbook sexual harassment OP. Sorry. Clearly you didn't mean it that way, but lots of people who do try to pass offers of foot massages etc off as a joke and then build on it from there. Maybe the women in question had experienced that before and didn't realise that you never intended to take it further? Maybe you were just blind to the fact you were making them uncomfortable? Either way, I'm sorry but they reacted in the way any sane woman does in a world where victim shaming and rape culture are rife. As a general rule think 'would I say this to a male colleague?' If the answer is no, chances are it will be taken as sexual harassment.

TheLynx_fml 20

Saturday 2 April 2016 6:24

Look I don't care what other people are saying you are being a nice guy and I respect that, sorry that happened to you

lucasj23 11

Saturday 17 March 2018 6:07

obviously you did this in a creepy way. ydi

lucasj23 11

Tuesday 10 July 2018 0:47

you creeps always say you're joking. women are sick of the crap. ydi

Catto-Golden 23

Monday 22 October 2018 6:11

Okay but both of those can be really ******* creepy, a lot of guys don't know the difference between compliments and perverted comments. Don't compliment their ******* appearance, show you apreciate them as a person. Also, calling yourself a nice guy? Big red flag.

Colin John Brennan 2

Monday 19 July 2021 15:20

Yeah, mate, that's sexual harassment. I love all the guys in here being like "ONLY BECAUSE YOU'RE UGLY," and I'm just sitting here being like, "man, dudes using their low self-esteem to say women having boundaries is a bad thing is a ******' trip." Wake the **** up and stop blaming women for you being an invasive creep. Rule of thumb; if it would feel awkward saying it to Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, you shouldn't say it to women you're not in a relationship with.