Have you heard about the words “personality”? Or “character”? We are not attracted to a career, but to a person as a whole. Maybe this guy is sweet, respectful, funny, open-minded… and sorry but you sound super arrogant, uptight, and creepy for not taking no for an answer. Leave her alone and move on!

Since everyone else is already going the harsh way, I'll try a bit softer. Dude, you are uptight. And there is a shitton of people who consider that a bad trait. People who smoke weed, consider that a bad trait. If she's dating a smoker, she's probably a private smoker. You being "I'm better then him cuz I don't smoke", are probably also insulting her smoking habits at the same time. You should go for someone that's also uptight. Someone that's also "yuck weed". Because your uptightness is gonna be a plus for them. Go for people who consider your traits a positive, not for people who are annoyed by them. Watch out for actual compatibility, instead of "look how good of a provider I am", because if you don't mesh, it doesn't matter how good you are on paper, it's gonna be miserable.

And? So what if she'd rather date someone else? That's her business. She told you "No.". There doesn't have to be a reason specifically for someone to not want to date somebody else. Though, judging by your attitude about being rejected, I'm guessing there are probably several reasons she's not interested. *Strongly* consider working on these sorts of issues before attempting to date again. (It should be obvious, but I will spell it out in full detail, because you seem like the type to misconstrue this - Before attempting to date ***somebody else*** - Because this woman has made her stance on dating you quite clear).

so she went for the seemingly chilled out pot smoker, with what I will assume are good vibes being able to work in some form of customer service gig. And not the "rich", Smrtr than everyone, what sounds like abusive stalkeresque gent like yourself... I am so shocked. I also have 3 college degrees and having them I can tell everyone they aren't that impressive, none more than 6 month degrees so numbers doesn't mean much... honestly reading from you I kinda want to hang with the other dude now as well, just to get away from you bud.

I bet you’re a really nice guy😉

It’s not always about YOU.

She has the right to date whoever she wants, even if it's a total loser. Honestly, if that's what she wants, why would you even waste your time pining over her? She definitely doesn't sound like she's worth it. Your behavior is borderlining on stalking, in which case, get over yourself. She's not interested, and she's not worth it.

She's not the one who's butthurt, homie. You're bragging about pointless "achievements" in life and are getting turned down every time she sees you because you lack a personality. So before you go reaching for that assault rifle, how about you develop a healthy identity for yourself and then see if you meet someone else who would be interested in you? Ditch the incel inside.