wow he's honest

you should've said "only if i'm allowed to **** whoever i want twice."

At least he asked? o___O

I hope the answer was "no, and now you must hire a new male secretary". Of course, if the secretary was already male, that's a whole new level of FYL.

One word: Threesome.

Your reply: "Oh, oops. We were supposed to ask first?"

Shut up hoe he doesn't need ur permission he needs ur sandwiches bitch get to work fatass slacking housewife

Well perhaps rather than posting this on fml you should go have a serious discussion with your hubby about your sex life. If he feels like he needs to go elsewhere for satisfaction then you obviously arn't giving him what he needs and desiers. This is a two way street as well, once you know what he wants tell him what you want. Me and my girlfriend have an excellent and interesting sex life because we are willing to give the other whatever they want. Only one rule, if one of us says stop we stop imediatly. If he wants something that is a bit out of your comfort zone, ask him how he would do it and discuss with him how you would like to do the same thing so that it would be a little more comfortable for you rather than saying no. Or if the issue is appearence rather than sexuality itself ask him what he finds undesierable about you and take steps to change it. Once again this is a two way street.

You have some good points LOKIM8 Men tend to get into affairs to get something they aren't getting at home. Ask yourself if you really are being a good wife. Are you having sex with him? Are you treating him like a king? I suggest reading "The proper care and feeding of husbands" by Dr. Laura. It could save your marriage at best and at worst you lose a weekend reading it.

Just say no. Problem solved.