Prevention

By CalyenaL - 13/05/2012 01:35 - Mexico - Tijuana

Today, I'm found out I'm pregnant. My husband and I spoke at length about how we were going to handle things, which included him "forbidding" me from having an epidural, because he doesn't want our baby to "come out addicted to drugs." FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 792
You deserved it 3 189

Same thing different taste

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He will change his mind when you break his hand going into labor.

He's not the one pushing a baby out of his vag. Tell him it's your choice. And, sometimes doctors really want people to get them, so that they don't pass out from pain.

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mlj_ASW 0

Its not his choice. He's not the one going to push something the size of a watermelon out of a ******

kick him in the balls about 20 times then ask if he would have rather had pain meds before you did that. guys have no clue how much it hurts to do it natural. I dont have kids but i have been in the delivery room several times with friends and family. one of my friends has 3 boys, 1 natural, 1 with epidural and 1 c section. she said if she had the first one natural she would have never had any more kids. in any case he cant forbid you squat. this isnt mid-evil times when wives were property. he has no say in how you have the baby its all up to you

Ice_King 0

Screw that! He doesnt understand what it feels like. i wouldnt do it without the epidural. my son turned out perfectly fine and he wasnt addicted to anything. if u want an epidural, get one. he cant force u not to. plus if they hav to end up doing a c section, they hav to giv u meds anyway. they cant just do surgury with some kind of pain killer. u never what what will happen.

catanita 18

That is not for him to decide or forbidd.

thinbubba 8

Your husband is just stupid. It doesn't work that way. I feel bad for you.

smurfette7 1

Ooo hell naw, tell him to push a baby out his penis without damn medz.!

I'm sure he'd feel differently if something the size of a small watermelon was coming out of him. What a dumbass.

mowmowlife 21

There are different ways to handle births, and epidurals can't be the best in my mind, but your husband is in no position to forbid you to use anything you need and is medically reasonable. On the bright side, he cares. But it's not going to really harm either of you. So he needs to suck it up. He can pull the veto card on other things later in life.