Rubbing it in

By Anonymous - This FML is from back in 2009 but it's good stuff - United States

Today, I got an invitation to my ex-boyfriend's wedding. We broke up because he "didn't believe in marriage." FML
I agree, your life sucks 79 873
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Shit happens honey, you're probably better off. I didn't believe in marriage myself when I was dating douchebags.

ayumi22_fml 0

i hope someday both of u are ok. :)

You should go to his wedding, & at the 'does anyone have any reason why this couple should not be wed' part, stand up & say he doesn't believe in marriage. Totally.

omg he's an ass but if anything its a good thing cause if you have gotten married you might have ended in divorce

someone said already but, he meant 'he doesnt believe in marriage with you.'

Well it sucks. but ya gotta move on!

fenwayfaithful05 0

humm... this depends on the situation Everyone has the right to life, liberty and happiness. People also have the right o change your mind and just because at the time he was with you he may or may not have believed in marriage doesn't mean he doesn't know. That isn't your fault and that isn;ty his fault and he shouldn't be punished. If you two have talked on a regular basis and he invited you because he believes your still friends, even if maybe you may not think you are, then go, have a good time and celebrate in the happiest day of your friends lifr and hope that someday he will do the same for you. If all you can do is think of ways to savatage the wedding or that it might hurt you to see him get married in anyway...don't go. ruining a wedding for anyone is selfish and childish and will only make you look like an idiot, not ruin your ex's whole life... you will regret doing that to him someday anyways. If you haven't kept in contact since the breakup he either A is rubbing it in your face that he's getting married before you which in fact means lucky you! He was a jerk and you don't have to deal with him anymore or B... he wants you to feel jelousey because he still likes you, or C maybe is still thinking about you as a friend and want to recindle that relastionship which in that case, well hes still thinking about you. just be smart about what you do. if your goiung to be hurt or ruin anything for the bride and groom just dont go. simple as that...unless he did send your the invite because he still likes you, then hes still the one married to the one he loves, and you disrepecting the wedding would only hurt you