My ex moaned I love you ?

If you usually are quick on the draw and you're afraid (for some reason?) to take care of your partner afterward, you should make sure they're taken care of beforehand. The guilt's not necessarily a problem - some people don't care at all and forget them, really - but there are a couple things you can do to please both parties and not feel like you need to apologize. If you're both having fun the apology is just unnecessary.

I don't know what I'd do if my boyfriend moaned im sorry when he cums... I think that's strange

[insert obligatory Canadian joke]

This was incredibly depressing to read.

Are you sure you're not Canadian?

I... I'm not sure how I should feel about your post.

I used to have a boyfriend who would apologise every single time he came. He thought he always finished too soon, no matter how many times I reassured him. It didn't last THAT long, but it was always the apology that killed the mood.

Sometimes being whipped is just you, and not as a result of an over powering gf. If she's that bad, leave, if you're bad in bed, improve. If it's neither, then grow a pair, and just stop acting "whipped"

that's better then what I say, I always end up saying "HARDER" or "DEEPER"