STFU

By annoyedguy - 30/06/2009 11:20 - United States

Today, my girlfriend missed our date, so I angrily texted her, telling her if she can't make our dates then we should break up, and generally telling her off. Five minutes later I get a picture of her sleeping in a hospital bed from her mother, saying, "Shut the fuck up, she had appendicitis." FML
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Glam_fml 0

And this is why you find out what's going on *before* you freak out.

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lmmmr 0

Asshole. You didn't think to call?

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jdylopa0427 0

when you are meeting someone and they are not there when they set a date, you don't think "oh, maybe they just have appendicitis...its okay", you think that they stood you up. if you deny it, you are a liar. all those people saying YDI, you obviously think that he is supposed to telepathically know that she is in the hospital...especially you #88!!!

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_elly_beth_ 0

He shouldn't just freak out and say he wants to break up with her for standing her up. He shouldn't automatically assume that. Maybe she had a flat tire. Maybe something happened to her sibling. It's not a good thing for him to automatically assume she stood him up, unless it has happened in the past, which the OP didn't specify. He should have asked where she was and if everything was okay instead of telling her off without knowing the situation. I would not think my boyfriend stood me up, I would think something happened and probably get worried. And I am not a liar or in denial. Not everyone thinks like you.

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auroraaustralis 0

No, genius (#90). A person who genuinely cared about their significant other would be concerned that something bad had happened: car accident, death in the family, broken down car, etc. etc. The smart thing would have been to call her, since he obviously had a cell AND her number to do so since he sent her a text message. And then her mother would have answered (more than likely since the woman got the text message) and explained what had happened.

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K4ofDoom 0

No. If my boyfriend didn't show up for a date, I would be worried he'd gotten hurt or sick. Not jumping to conclusions, going batshit insane and threatening to break up with him.

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lakeylove 0

you dont derserve her if i was a dude i would call her and if no answer go to her house to see if she's ok. Then text her where she is and that you care. Asshole is what you are.

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seniorenyore 0

I don't find it completely his fault because he didn't know and if my boyfriend missed my date and no one told me anything then I'd be upset too. If he didn't know... Youi can't balme him for getting upset. You can't say you'd do this that and the other in that kind of situation beccause that situation turns into a really confusing one. I'm sure he feels shitty. I'd probably text my boyfriend because i was upset he had missed our date but I'm sure it will be fine once he talks it out and apologizes. Jeez. Don't say someone doesn't deserve someone for getting upset over something that any other person would get upset over until they realized the reason.

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poiuytrewqlkjhgf 0

OK seriously. YDIIIIIIIIIIIII. I would break up with you after that, even if she didn't have appendicitis.

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Soniplaystation 0

well if I had a bf i would have ask someone to let him know i couldnt make it and hope you would come see me in the hospital. so maybe you're not a complete ass,you didnt know and apparently this wasnt the first time she stood you up.

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kapay 0

Sounds to me like she's broken more than one date. If it's the first time then he's an asshole. If this happened several times then most of us probably would have thought the same thing. Why stay with someone who can't be bothered to keep a date with you.

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Gasbarro 3

What the hell. Okay, imagine for a second your kid suddenly has to go to the emergency room, you're worried sick, and then learn she has appendicitis. You're trying to get her to relax in her hospital bed. An angry boyfriend pissed off about a missed date is probably the LAST thing you want to deal with, especially if he's threatening a breakup and possibly throwing insults at her. And his date is probably the last thing on your mind. If I was this chick's mom, I would go off on the guy for being such an ass and jumping to conclusions, pulling that stunt on MY daughter.

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GothamKnight 0

It's in the middle. They should have told you about her hospitalization but you shouldn't have overreacted.

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Soniplaystation 0

well if I had a bf i would have ask someone to let him know i couldnt make it and hope you would come see me in the hospital. so maybe you're not a complete ass,you didnt know and apparently this wasnt the first time she stood you up.

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frootloop25 0

I had appendicitis and honestly there's nooo way you can even think or act or do anything. It's horribleeee. But I guess since the OP didn't expect it its okay...but really you didnt have to jump the gun like that by saying OOO we're breaking up. That's a bit extreme.

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