#102: You may not want to lecture others on correct word usage when you don't know that "melodramatic" is one word, or how to spell "appendix." OP: This is both a YDI and an FYL. YDI for fishing for compliments, and for doing so via text message, which is possibly the WORST medium for heartfelt exchange. FYL because of your boyfriend's overreaction, though. He should have said, "I love you, but please don't ask me the same question via text again." If you need self-affirmation, you should be able to pep yourself up until you can see your significant other or friends so they can help you out in person.

To be honest, I'd say the same thing if my girl friend asked me that. Ask me to tell you how much I love you. Dont ask me to tell you why. Then it just seems like your doubting it.

im a girl and i hate how some chicks are just so dependent.

yeah i agree. i think he meant that you should know why he loves you. ^^

Are there any guys like Freudian_Slip who think those kind of things are cute? jw I would never send a text like that, or even ask at all. I know guys dont really like sappy stuff. That was a mean response, but I hope that in future relationships you will know now not to ask stuff like that unless you and your bf are close enough to acually talk about that kind of stuff, or he is one of those rare guys who like that. Next time when your feeling down, try your friends first?

thats why girls need to keep stupid questions like that to themselves. we are guys we dont wear our hearts on our sleeves. when we express our love listen and remember what we say or do so you can think of that moment when that retarded question comes into your head.

#111 - Inoku: Oh no! I didn't proof read! I guess that automatically makes my argument null and void. *rolls eyes* What are you, 9 years old? Who even pulls people up on spelling errors, anyway?

Wow, what a jerk

Men are ignorant of the fact that women go through hormonal swings that DO make women emotionally, well, wakko. I must be an abberation of womankind though, as I have never even thought of asking that question. (I don't ask questions that I may not like the answer to ) I used to get depressed every month, crave chocolate, get extremely horny and then start my period. Like clockwork. So please men, have a little understanding of the woman in your life. It's not our fault. Don't you expect us to understand when you do your stupid 'man' things. Too many to list, eh. Though, downer, if you are seriously depressed, medication and therapy can help a lot. SEe your doctor. It helped me during a period of my life when I was clinically depressed. It comes and goes an I know it will pass, so I try to be patient, but if my depression goes on for more than a couple of months, I go to the doctor.

Girl, your boyfriend is kind of insensitive, but you sound really needy. You're just trying to fish for a quick compliment without actually tackling the reason why you feel sad.