hes right you ******* *****

I hope you dumped his ass. #308 your an idiot, you probably don't even know the person. ******* moron.

well, it sounds like you're seeking happiness from outside sources, other than yourself, consisting of your environment and the people in your environment. you will never be satisfied this way. first you must ask yourself, why are you feeling down? then think of the cause and eliminate it, avoid it, and cope with it in a way other than counteracting it with outside sources. secondly, your boyfriend maybe right, or he maybe wrong. maybe you fish for compliments all the time. i don't know him or you or your specific situation. regardless, he shouldn't speak to you that way. once you've generated your own happiness by changing your own thoughts, gaining confidence or getting rid of whatever is causing your sadness, express to your boyfriend that you are a strong, secure individual and that he shouldn't speak to you that way. everyone wants to be appreciated, especially by someone they like or love. try to only ask him these types of questions every once in a while. if he still treats you this way, he maybe the reason you are feeling down.

you have a great boyfriend!

#9 are you gay? well i guess you could be a girl, but still a straight guy would never text that probably lol. i guess they might be i probably wouldn't.

YDI - Insecurity will wreck a relationship. Every guy gets sick of that shit. Next time don't play games. Be honest and tell him you need cheering up. Otherwise, you're just using him, and you only called him to boost your own ego. Pig!

omg that happens to me too. youre not the only one babeee. my bfs a jerk ): yo all the ydi's - you guys are meaann. you def dont deserve it.

he wouldn't say that unless you either have crappy taste in men, or you ask that ALL the time, which would be quite obnoxious.

When insecure women ask that all the time, it's really God damned annoying, so maybe he's just heard it too much already. Once my girlfriend asked that in IM, for the billionth time, so I just went into the archived messages and pasted and old reply. She did not care for that when she figured it out.

sorry i agree with 316 and everyone else that said YDI. He loves you, end of story. Why ask? "Oh you're right. I don't see a good reason to. Time to break up"