That worked out rather well

By Anonymous - 27/07/2016 10:36 - Ukraine - Poltava

Spicy
Today, I confessed to my boyfriend that I have no sex drive, but faked it to avoid hurting his feelings. It was after he confessed he is not attracted to women, but forced himself to have sex with me because he didn't want to admit he is gay. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Whelp, looks like both of you not being honest led to something neither of you wanted.

This is why honesty is always the best policy

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Your lack of sex drive turned him gay. So it ended on good terms then?

I'm not sure if you're being a sarcastic asshole or if you actually misread the bit where he said he didn't want to admit he wasn't attracted to women, when he started dating her.

Besides, asexuality isn't a disease or problem that needs diagnosis. I hope you were talking about low sex drive and not sexual attraction.

Well at least you both have something in common...... Both enjoy puffen on Pet*r. But at least he told you the truth and he wasn't cheating on you with another girl.

...How does not having a sex drive, and thus likely finding sex very UNenjoyable mean that OP likes giving ********? Or the probably ex-boyfriend being gay mean he likes giving ********?

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To the people that said 'that could've happened to me' what the **** is going on in your life ?

That is actually a sad story but good that you could both get things out in the open.

I recently told my husband something similar. I used to enjoy sex, but haven't for yearrrs. He once said "can you just fake it or something?". So, I did. After 4-6 years I got really bored with it. I've finally admitted I was faking all those years and really don't have ANY desire for sex or ************. I am just not able to feel aroused. Except maybe once or twice a year. I can understand that side of your issue OP. Daily requests (and nearly daily doing it anyway) is really difficult. It's messed with my head quite a bit too. Wish you luck on finding a solution.

My wife experiences that sometimes when she tries a new birth control. Not saying it's unnatural, but it could be that your birth control is suppressing your sex drive. It's a popular problem.