Hey could help out!! Its not all her responsibility to make the money for the house then come home and clean. Men are Pigs!!!

Who said they were his kids? maybe they are an ex partners kids. Even if they are his kids who the hell cares about a big party and a piece of useless paper nowadays, you think people can't be lazy ***** once they are married? Maybe he was a perfectly wonderful bf until COD was released.

After marriage, the wife tends to get fat (this is a statistic, not a stereotype) , watch Oprah all day, and complain to the husband all the time about everything. The only good reason to get married is that it makes life easier when everyone in the family has the same last name, especially if you have kids. Not all people who play video games are bad, yet most of the comments by the females seem to hold a very negative opinion on video games. I play Xbox like crazy, yet I get amazing marks in school and still have a social life. I also happen to know many other gamers who are like that. Maybe if the girls here thought before they commented, they'd realise how bitchy and ignorant their comments sound.

he has a job just wasn't at work that day and they're my kids from a different relationship.

Both people in the relationship tend to give up on the rigorous looking their best routine at some point not just in marriage. Its all part of being comfortable around someone. Im not saying its good that some people once married put on a tonne of weight and do shit all but its good to feel that you can walk around with sweats on and your hair in a mess once in a while. What changes after marraige is all in the heads of those that are married. also thanks to OP for clearing up some points, i hope you made him clean up that day :) The rules in my house are whoever is off work that day has to keep the house in order, it works most of the time.