Except for the boob job I agree. No need to bimboze ones self but being happy and beautiful is the best revenge. My moms new motto is being "happy for no reason" and it's working for her. maybe give it a try and make the sucker wish he'd kept what'd he'd had instead of downgrading to his very same class of shit.

Definitely agree with 34 on the boobs - why make yourself as fake as her?

Hey if you've got bigger **** than her then how can he not look? Or want you for that matter. Everybody, even girls, love big ****. Me included.

I love big ****. I would love to have bigger ****. But I would never have a boob job.

Somehow I don't think boobs are the defining issue in his unfaithfulness and that changing her body around that basis is the solution. AndI love all boobs they're awesome. I don't really like silicon too much. Opinions differ. Either way changing yourself with someone else is mind is never healthy for personal growth or self love.

Your hott and I give you props for doing what your doing.

Maybe go for a really REALLY good push up bra?

But then it's like a wonder bra. You take it off and the man wonders where they went. Lol.

The government aid is called a lawyer. He cheated, she gets the house. Then she can sell it and move away from the nasty neighbor

25- Lawyers are very expensive though, and divorce trials can take years to come to any good results. In the meantime, she's going to need some kind of help.

She could help herself by holding a neighborhood fundraiser and bake sale. She could pass out flyers around town stating how her husband is cheating with the homewrecker that lives next to her, and how she needs funds to leave the situation. Bake whorecakes with boobies iced on them. Sell them for $3.00 a cake each. OP did nothing wrong, so no need for embarrassment on her end. Who knows, the neighbor and husband may hit the road from the stigma alone. (I'm not kidding either.)

By Jove, that's just crazy enough to work!

If they don't have sex she isn't in danger of "deadly diseases". And I doubt she will be anytime soon.

She shoul try to find an attorney that will help her. Most handle some cases Pro Bono.

77, OP said their relationship had been good recently up to this point. I assume that means they were having sex. She's been exposed.

You're right -- I forgot to mention in the meantime she should get a locksmith and her favorite friends to help her throw his stuff on the lawn. Also, even most no-fault states have infidelity clauses and the unfaithful spouse foots the lawyer bill.

This commenter used the present tense of expose and that's why I posted that. He then proceeded to say she really had to get out of there, which doesn't make sense with that line of thinking. Just calling it how I see it.

Can you move in with me =D

Creepers gonna creep....

21- Going to counseling is often a good idea, but don't defend her husband's actions by saying he was 'missing' something. That's like saying rape is okay because the victim 'led them on'. You can't blame a victim for what someone else does to them. People cheat, and it may be for any number of reasons, but in the end, the responsibility for their actions falls upon them.