By Anonymous - 06/08/2015 19:37 - Canada

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Today, after ranting to my best friend about how all our friends are having kids and how teenage pregnancy will ruin their lives, she announced to me that she's pregnant. FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 747
You deserved it 7 356

Same thing different taste

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Well I guess you're not going to be invited to the baby shower. But on the bright side there's no way you could've known, and now you don't have to live a lie!

Be there for her and support her, don't be that person who's not a friend anymore due to a difference in opinion

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Well she's ******. Literally and figuratively in this case.

doodlebug13 15

Ok first if all OP: you need to learn to be less judge mental. No child ruins someone's life. Children are blessings no matter how old you are when you have them. I got pregnant at 16, had her at 17, then got pregnant with her sister and had her a few months After my HIGH SCHOOL GRADUATION!!!!!! Yes that's right, I finished school. And now I am happily married to my girls' father. We have our own house and everything. So don't say being a teen mom "ruins your life." Because it doesn't. It made my life soooo much better.

First off 45 yes they do ruin some people's lives hopes and dreams. "blessings" I think you mean walking talking vectors of disease and misery, that leech you financially for 18+ years, however that is my opinion and I'm entitled to have it as you are to have yours. Maybe you should take your own advice and be a bit less judgemental yourself. Kids just aren't for some people, myself included, and even if an individual does want kids if they come at the wrong stage in life they can ruin a lot of things for said individual. Plus I don't think anyone ever plans on being a teen mom. Except maybe Mormons.

Did you happen to have financial support from family members? Not everyone is so lucky. Think before YOU judge.

Exactly, it made YOUR life so much better. People are allowed their own opinions and it doesn't always work out so well for other people, especially the rare few that just want a kid for the child benefits (it has happened before). You keep your opinion and let them keep theirs.

doodlebug13 15

#36 dude, you're the dumb one. **** you. And by the wAy, let's learn some grammar please. I thanks bye!! (:

F her life, for being a pregnant teen. You were just being honest.

what's wrong with teenage pregnancy? why will it ruin her/their lives? I had my first child at 18. he didn't ruin my life at all. I own my own house. I work I'm training to be a midwife and I'm married to a brilliant guy. just because some people don't do well having a child young does not give you the right to say it will ruin their life

Did you happen to have financial support from family members? Not everyone is so lucky. Think before YOU judge.

RedPillSucks 31

the odds are against you if you don't have sufficient parental and financial support. so usually it's not a good thing to be a pregnant unmarried teen in this day and age.

No I didn't. my family didn't help with any think. I workedy ass off and raised my family

Because an unplanned pregnancy during one's teen years is such a brilliant plan... 46. Take a look in the mirror before you start calling 36 dumb.

why is it fml to you, shes the one whos pregnant

To everyone saying "TEENAGE PREGANANCY DOESN'T RUIN YOUR LIFE, LOOK AT ME I HAVE A HOUSE AND I FINISHED SCHOOL BLAH BLAH BLAH" did you by chance happen to have parental/family help? Yeah, that's what I thought.

How many times are you going to make essentially the same comment?

No I didn't, my family lives on the other side of the country and on another continent all together. I worked my ass off and paid my own bills and my own college tuition.

Honestly, good for you making your own way. I'm serious. That takes lots of hard work and dedication to support yourself and a baby without help.

I didn't mean for the duplicate comment to post, thought the first one didn't go through.

No I didn't. we worked. we had no help with anything. and as you commented on my comment you should know I still live comfortably with 5 children. I finished school and am a qualified child psychologist and in my second year of midwifery training so yeah exactly as you thought

Looks like your rant wasn't the only thing that was premature?

CliffyB03 28

"I still stand by what I said"