By tomcat69 - 11/07/2011 00:01 - Canada

Today, after spending 6 months and $15,000 on lawyer fees at my 13 year old son's request, his abusive, alcoholic father no longer has any legal right to see him. How did my son repay me? He ran away to live with his father the very first time I told him he couldn't have friends sleep over. FML
I agree, your life sucks 48 236
You deserved it 7 817

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Lauren10102 3

Hey you could have seen this coming, the dad has both no rules, AND alcohol!!!

If he were younger, I could understand...but 13? Really? What an ungrateful child...

Comments

bigbadjake 0

shoulda just let his friend spend the night and not been a female dog

My parents got divorced when I was five, and I'll admit that when I didn't get my way at my mom's house, I'd threaten her saying that I was going to live with my dad. I knew living with my dad was unsuitable for children, but I tried anything to get my way. If I ever went to my dad's house, it was a brief trip (No more than three or four days) and I would be back home, apologizing to my mom. It sounds like you're trying to be a good parent, OP, but I think you need to establish your relationship with your son. YOU are the parent, HE is the child. etc

TylersBoo 0

you should have let him have friends over..

dinosaurRAWR3 0

you bitch why wouldn't you let him have friends over!!?!?!?

Kurochrome 17

Why don't you read the comments and find out? OP already explained this.

This person is actually legally an adult(for at least the USA)? O.O

MerrikBarbarian 9

give him a few days and the honeymoon period will pass and he'll be back with you. my dad had no legal right to see me after I was 13 and old enough to clearly state this to a lawyer.... but I still saw him now and then when he was in his good moods. it gave me the choice- which it gives your son to. it's not that he never wants to see his dad, it's that he wants to see him on his terms only.

he'll be back the moment the old man gets drunk.

your son is gay, dumbass! he's 13 with a raging boner and hot boy friends.

Call the police and report him as runaway? The father has no rights over the son and thus is not allowed to be around him without your permission.