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take the comics, and a samich with bacon!
hey hey comics are timeless
How do you think your husband feels, being sick enough where he was "in danger" for several days and having to sit in a hospital. I'm not saying you should cater to his every whim, he wasn't asking you to come keep him company for days on end. . .He simply asked you to bring him something so that he could entertain himself, so he wouldn't have to continue bothering you, while you were off able to do other things. . . Even in the context of the situation whose life really sucks here?
Maybe her hubby asked her to bring it at a later time.
both their lives suck. however, he could ask the night nurse to drug him up so he's not bothering his wife.
True, true. She most probably did.
Um correct me if Im wrong but isn't 3 days 72 hours? OP you have done well looking after him when he is in hospital and you need your sleep. Simple fact is if you are too tired then you are in danger of crashing. I hope you told him you would be there in a couple of hours so you could get more sleep. I don't think he was being selfish though, his body clock is probably all over the place and he either didn't realise the time or just didn't think. Also to the commenter somewhere above it is very possibleto die from lack of sleep, things just start to shut down. You are more likely to die from a fatigue induced accident than from the actual fatigue tho.
I think ops husband could have waited until at least 8am for the comic books. op shouldn't be mad, she just should have said "I'll bring them in a few hours" and her husband should have been happy with that. even when loved ones are sick you still have to take at least basic care of yourself.
I think the fact that she considers her life f'ed implies some resentment, or anger. if she wasn't upset at all, she wouldn't consider her life f'ed about it...
I will say this as succinctly as possible: if my wife were critically ill then got better but were still in the hospital, no matter when she called and no matter what she called for, I would go and ******* get it for her. Anyone who does otherwise is a selfish asshole. I'm so pissed at several of the commenters above I feel like strangling them with a piano wire. That is all.
Pussy-whipped! :)
Or is both, you smelly sardines.
Holy shit, you people are selfish and weak. I agree with Doc 100%, and I'm neither married or in any sort of relationship. When someone you love is sick or still recovering you always put their wants and needs before yours. Sometimes just the smallest things (like reading some comic books) can make your day a hell of a lot better. I understand it sucks waking up that early especially when you haven't gotten much sleep, but sometimes you just gotta toughen up and just do it.
You don't think it's selfish to ask your significant other to risk their own life for a ******* comic book? Severe sleep depravation is just as bad, if not worse, than driving drunk. You could fall asleep driving and your reaction time is seriously impaired. I would NEVER ask my fiance to drive somewhere to bring me something when he's that sleep deprived because I don't want him to get into an accident. You can't 100% not take care of your own basic needs. How is it going to help anything when her husband does come home if she's extremely sick or too exhausted to function? It's not like she was sleeping all day. He can survive for another 2 hours or so. I guarantee you if OP is like most people, as soon as she woke up she was planning on heading back to the hospital to see him and could've brought the comic books then. Like I said, you can't ignore and compromise your own health that much when your significant other is sick, because you won't be able to do anything for them if you're sick yourself.
It's not like OP didn't get ANY sleep during the 96 hours. All that the OP said was that she didn't get a good nights sleep for 96 hours. That means that she has gotten at least a little bit of sleep over 4 days. I don't know about you, but I've gone a lot longer than 4 days without a "good nights sleep," and I've still been able to drive a vehicle just fine. I honestly don't thin that the OP was in any serious danger if she were to drive. I can't deny that the husband was a little selfish in asking for such a favor. But still, the right thing would be to suck it up and get him his comic books.
I guess this is where we just have to agree to disagree. My whole high school experience was one long period of sleep deprivation. One day I blew right through a red light without even realizing it until halfway through the intersection. Luckily no one was around. A few weeks ago I got pulled over late at night because the cop thought I was driving drunk. Nope. Just sleep deprived. You may just be lucky that you can go a long time without quality sleep and still be able to drive just fine. It's like some people can have more beers than others and still be able to drive just fine.
I wonder how many of the people claiming the OP is selfish have actually been through this sort of thing themselves? It doesn't matter how much you love someone, your body still needs sleep, especially if you have to drive. Possibly her husband wasn't aware what the time was, it's easy to lose track in hospital. By all means take him in some comic books at 8.00am, but it would be stupid to risk her life (and those of other road users) for a few comics. Perhaps those who point out hospital can be boring ought to try sitting in Intensive Care 18 hours a day for a few days watching machines breathe for your loved one. You wouldn't be anywhere else, but believe me it isn't a barrel of laughs.
Yuggi - If you think loving the mother of my children to the point where I would do anything for her is "pussy whipped", then consider me pissy whipped. I call it love. Reynshine- see above. It has nothing to do with backbones. I hope you and your fiancé/husband (you say fiancé in your comment but husband in your profile...make up your mind!) develop this kind of bond.
through sickness and in health? oh wait, lemme guess. you didn't think it'd actually have to come to that, huh? I wake up at 4am everyday. it's not the end of the world. get over it.
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Um correct me if Im wrong but isn't 3 days 72 hours? OP you have done well looking after him when he is in hospital and you need your sleep. Simple fact is if you are too tired then you are in danger of crashing. I hope you told him you would be there in a couple of hours so you could get more sleep. I don't think he was being selfish though, his body clock is probably all over the place and he either didn't realise the time or just didn't think. Also to the commenter somewhere above it is very possibleto die from lack of sleep, things just start to shut down. You are more likely to die from a fatigue induced accident than from the actual fatigue tho.
well, he's not dying. you'll sleep eventually.