dude I was just in your same position. it sucks dick..

You're probably a very dependent/selfish person. So in a way she has a point.

Dump her now. Not only is that statement very telling, but she obviously isn't even going to try to treat you decently. I lived with someone that started being very rude to me. When I tried discussing it with her, I got a statement very close to this. My next sentence to her was to get the hell out. Yours should be too.

You deserve better, you need to dump her now before she strings you along for months...

The truth hurts, suck it up ******.

you should probably leave this relationship, but instead of "finding someone better" maybe examine yourself for traits that are attracted to all the wrong types (girls that are wayyyy out of your league? Or girls who fear intimacy? Or girls who have trust issues? Etc) Or maybe traits in you that girls like this find attractive (do you move too fast? Wear your heart too on your sleeve too much? etc). Otherwise your next girlfriend will have the same problems, but might not be as honest about it. Trust me: I know how your girlfriend feels. Nothing like the sense of control in a relationship when you know you hold all the dice, call all the shots, and can manipulate everyone around you. Nothing you, OP, can do to change her/this type of woman. Prolly stems from trust issues and insecurity.

At least she's honest...

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you. Jimmy Soul . . . FTW!

Lose her. You deserve better.

I think you should obviously dump her. or... take one ON her...