By WTF? - 01/04/2011 15:55 - United Kingdom

Today, I caught my boyfriend secretly using my hair straightener while I was in the other room. Too embarrassed to talk to him about it, I left and came back later, only to discover him slipping on a pair of my panties. FML
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Same thing different taste

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whoisthisgirl 4

? I know plenty of guys that straighten their hair. and what kind of relationship are you in that you can't say "I seen you using my hair straightener!" using your underwear is weird but still.

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I would never have used the hair straightener.

deviousness101 0

That sucks can we say bye bye bf....

Lots of guys have a cross-dressing fetish. It's harmless. Who knows, if you're good giving and game as Dan Savage says, you might even adds a bit of fun to your life together. But tell him to get his own. If you really do accept, or even embrace, his cross-dressing, he'll probably love you forever.

YDI for leaving your panties on the floor where he could slip on them. He could have hurt himself.

rolls_royce 0

heard the expression "Run like Hell". Here's the time. so Don't walk , run, run like hell

awww cmon guys... its nawt that bad... evryone does weird things wen they fink they are alone

TraceCase_ 19

Harmless I suppose, but sexy? Not to me. Don't think I'd want to see my undies on a man. Plus, I don't want them all stretched out with wiener and skid marks

The question is, does your boyfriend have a cross-dressing fetish, or is he transgendered? It's impossible to tell from the given information. (And OP probably doesn't know either.) Lots of guys have a cross-dressing fetish. It's harmless. Tell him to get his own clothes, though. :-) If you're "good giving and game" about it, who knows, you might even have fun with it together. There are more than a few women I know who think a man in panties is hot. And if you accept, or even embrace, his cross-dressing, he'll probably love you forever for it. On the other hand, your boyfriend could be transgendered--i.e. he really thinks of himself as a woman, and is wearing your clothes because he's more comfortable dressing as a woman. That's rather more difficult and you have to ask yourself some questions. In that case you're dating a woman--are you up for dating a woman? Can you be supportive of her through transition? etc. Therapy might help your boyfriend sort out his feelings about his gender. Does he have a fetish for women's undergarments? Lots of men think the fabric feels nice. Is he a manly-man who wants to be a pretty pretty princess some of the time? Or does he want to be a woman full-time?

CaptainPickles72 18

176- First of all good comment. And second, the pretty pretty princess thing cracked me up.

there is nothing wrong with him maybe crossdressing, at least he is in touch with a feminine side....i LOVE that about my fiance....and i encourage him