By Xandriajoy10 - 31/01/2016 03:44 - Australia - Sydney

Today, I confronted my husband about a pair of panties I found in his office. They're his. He put them on to show me that they fit. FML
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Xandriajoy10 tells us more.

Xandriajoy10 18

Hey OP here. For those that have given support or made a joke, it's much appreciated. It's really helped to see the brighter side of the situation. For a little more back story; I was in his office originally looking for an envelope and found the underwear in the back of one of his drawers. We discussed it at length, I tried to make sure he felt accepted and not judged. It has helped our relationship more than I could have thought. I always wondered if he was holding something back, it's relieving to have everything out in the open. I did a little research and have found that it is common among men. As for only finding one, he showed me his 'stash' of bras and lingerie that he had hidden in his shed. Hopefully he'll be more open and honest with me about what he likes and what I can do to please him.

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fakedsincerity 32

yay! that sounds awesome, and you sound awesome for your reaction and openness. enjoy your more confident partner ;D

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Jets4Life89 4

That is best case scenario what u complaining about

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macen 10

I literally read this fan fiction today

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revolvearoundme 15

If they're actually his I wouldn't worry much. Honestly men's underwear selection is even worse than our sock choices. Most stores carry boxers, briefs, and boxer/briefs in the states. All in rough cotton. I have a couple pairs I bought from Andrew Christian which is 150% gay underwear but they're soft sexy boxer briefs with some extra room for my junk when I'm feeling sexy for the women. In the states there's only 3 proper answers a man can give to what kind of underwear he wears to another man. Boxers, Briefs, or Commando.

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revolvearoundme 15

Most important post! What style, size, and pattern of pantie did you find?

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Xandriajoy10 18

Hey OP here. For those that have given support or made a joke, it's much appreciated. It's really helped to see the brighter side of the situation. For a little more back story; I was in his office originally looking for an envelope and found the underwear in the back of one of his drawers. We discussed it at length, I tried to make sure he felt accepted and not judged. It has helped our relationship more than I could have thought. I always wondered if he was holding something back, it's relieving to have everything out in the open. I did a little research and have found that it is common among men. As for only finding one, he showed me his 'stash' of bras and lingerie that he had hidden in his shed. Hopefully he'll be more open and honest with me about what he likes and what I can do to please him.

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bearbear120 27

I'm glad it made things better. Hopefully this honesty will make for better communication in the future.

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fakedsincerity 32

yay! that sounds awesome, and you sound awesome for your reaction and openness. enjoy your more confident partner ;D

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sturschaedel 27

Ah, I didn't really want to comment on it earlier because I wasn't sure on the issue of cheating+cover-up or lingerie fetish topic. But I'm glad to see that he is truthful and trustworthy and I hope sexy time will even get better for the two of you, now that his secret is out!

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dracolich 27

I'm really glad this turned out alright.

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vikky538 28

I wish every guy get a understanding wife like you..

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DoomedGemini 37

I'm glad you two are doing well, then. It seems like this kind of thing can bring people closer or force them apart.

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ladytigerhunts 20

Congratulations! I think you're one of the best wives in the world for accepting him as who he is and not worry about the society's expectations. :)

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Xion0014 20

You actually believe this bullshit? Boy are you gullible.

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cheshireau 26

OP, you are amazing. Your Husband is so lucky to have you. All the best for the future.

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aeryn97 17

thanks for letting us know that it turned out all right. :)

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negb 30

Good on you OP! Im glad it's helped your relationship. I had a boyfriend that cross dressed. It was kinda hard for me to accept but I did. We have since broken up but not for that reason.

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Vesi 29

This is very cool of you. My SO I've been with almost 9 years now is gender fluid and was always ashamed of liking femme stuff. It took some convincing to get him into femme underclothing. He wears panties all the time now. :)

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Sandman2015 12

Hey if that's the weirdest thing he's into, you're good. Now quit going through his drawers!

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MikaykayUnicorn 36

Glad this FML turned into something good for the both of you!

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jolly4nuff 1

You did research? The internet won't help you. You need to ask him about that

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JHPugh 19

I feel sorry for the guy, not being able to be honest with his partner, but I'm glad you're accepting of it, like someone else said, enjoy your more confident partner

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