I must be single, because I said we aren't sure if OP is fat? I'm 5'8 and weigh 134 pounds. I'm far from fat, but my ex boyfriend used to tell me I was fat all the time. Just because her husband said that, doesn't mean we have to assume she is, you evil bitch. Also, what does being a man have to do with spitting out the first thing that comes to their mind? Not all men are like that and not all people let themselves go in a relationship. You're an imbecile.

156 If you want to speak to the OP you don't have to threadjack. You can respond at the bottom like you're suppose to. but you're welcomed to stay 'cause I do enjoy your comments.(: And Anna I go by "Q".

169, wow. You insinuated that because he's a guy he spews out the first thought. Being a guy doesn't mean you're a different species. He's human, he has brain capacity, and he can control the words he says. Just because he's male does not mean he has an excuse for being rude. He controls his mouth. You're an idiot.

FATALITY!

Psst, hey Eli! Anna put that comment we wabted in here, next to her cyanide and lip balm! I'll split it with you. ;)

just because she should do something to "make her man happy" doesn't mean she doesn't have independence. and you might be 5'8" and 134 lbs now but who knows what you were when you were still with your ex. I'm 5'8" too but only 123 lbs so suck on that you posh spice wanna be transvestite. oh and just like you generalized all the women who please their men having a lack of independence, I generalized men blurting things out and couples letting themselves go, which from my opinion my generalization is more accurate then yours. not true for all but a majority

wanted.* Oof.

185: Judging by her thanks for my comment, I'm thinking Anna agrees that it's possible to remain independent while still pleasing your significant other. As I said, there's a fine line between doing so as a gift and doing so out of codependence.

Well screw you too, pendatik.

OK, I'm going to take the nice approach to this one. My first comment was to, MissErika who said "make your man happy" which is insinuating that a woman should bend over backwards and cater to her mans every single need and want. No, a woman OR a man should have the freedom to as they please within limits. Of course, there are certain things you should ask of your significant other, but you don't cater to their every whim. LOL, I was the same size when I was with my ex, give or take a few pounds. Me stating my weight, was not a free for all, for you to assume this is some sort of competition. "posh spice wanna be transvestite" I have hair down to the middle of my back. Since you clearly don't know what a transvestite is, I will tell you. Transvestite: A person and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification. I didn't generalize anyone. There's a difference between pleasing your man and doing what he asks, when he asks and how he asks. Learn to be a woman and lead your own life. Stop following in your mans shadow.