By Anonymous - 12/03/2010 20:53 - United States

Today, I discovered my step mom had thrown out my baby blanket because it was an "eyesore". It was an heirloom from my birth mother and the only thing I have left from her. FML
I agree, your life sucks 56 648
You deserved it 2 475

Same thing different taste

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VeryNice329 0

wow. I'm sorry. that was a rude thing to do. tell her she's an eye sore.

Monikabug 9

That is so sad! Your step-mother should have told you that she was going to get rid of it before she just threw it away. That way you could have had a chance to hold on to it, even if you had to put it in your closet or somewhere. Your step-mom is a bitch for not understanding why you would hold such fond memories and feelings with that blanket, and I am sure your relationship with her will never quite be the same. So sorry, OP. FYL!

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letsgobucks 0

kill the bitch while she's in the shower

she's a ******* bitch!!! that makes me want to kill her and I don't even know her!!

Those 22 who said she deserved it .. Omg. -.- .. Hate y'all. & Chin up girl

^^ . Oh yeah and you are gawjuz << i love my spelling.

perdix 29

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it's more than DNA! memories and heirlooms are important. not that you would care!

it's not about phyiscal means it's about mental and the reason you savor those objects is because the memories shared and loved shared between you and the person that gave it too you and why they gave it to you

Yes, it's nice to have heirlooms; but when you are mentally and spiritually strong you realize that no object can truly signify anything emotional. That which is inside of you cannot be taken away. OP your connection to your birth mother is about much, much, more than a blanket. Feel your love for your birth mother inside yourself and don't project it onto anything external. Keep her inside: let the blanket go. OP, I would also suggest you have a talk with your step mother about respect and boundaries. You can't forge a strong relationship with her without being honest about how this hurt you.

perdix 29

I don't want to bum everyone out, but I lost my dad about 8 years ago. I don't really have any "thing" from him that I would freak out if it got thrown away or lost. All I do is look in the mirror and see that his eyes are my eyes and his nose in my nose, etc. And his sense of humor is part of mine. To me, this is infinitely more significant than any material item.

TempestJones 0

My main question is, why was it somewhere that the stepmom could find it an eyesore if it was so "precious". Most kids when their parent remarries has a hard time adjusting and will FIND reasons to be mad at the step parent. More than likely this "precious" blanket was out laying around not thought of by OPuntil it got thrown out. If, however, the stepmom went into your personal room and took it out and THEN threw it away, then FYL OP... Otherwise, YDI and quit being a whiney brat.

Lady_Zydrate 1

I know your pain. My mom died 4 years ago and my step mom is okay, but she unknowingly hurts me emotionaly. She is trying to convert me to her religion and judges my mothers family. She doesnt even allow my brothers to share their opinion in the house. Cherish the memory your mother, I do

muffinstump 0

#55 your,a ****** idiot.....

KurouTenshi 0

the easiest way to solve this is beat her with a sack or oranges. it won't leave a bruise, and it'll show her who's boss.

koco4 0

plus you will get a nice glass of orange juice out of it.

chrisback5 0

This is the first FML I've read that actually made me go "Oh, God." Dude, that blows bigger than is possible to measure. Kill that bitch.

Guess the 'wicked step-mother' does really happen. I'm sorry. That's truly horrible. You don't throw out something somebody has a deep sentimental attachment to.

TempestJones 0

but how did the step mom know the OP was attatched to it?

koco4 0

even if the op wasn't attached to it, it wasn't hers to throw out. she should have asked first