Protip: If you approach someone, be prepared to have something to say. The person who approaches must start the conversation. I sincerely hope that a 12 or 13-year-old guy writing this and not a grown man. Either way, don't let one failure stop you. Learn from it, grow a pair, and try again.

sux dude. keep at it tho

All of you who are being rude should take note that by "approach a girl" he meant "go up and try talk to a girl he likes" not "get close enough to any member of the opposite sex so she could notice him, then just stand there, staring, and wait for her to talk." I'm sure OP has no problem talking to girls he is just friends with. OP - A friend of mine has the same problem with guys, and hasn't yet been able to have an in-person conversation with a guy she likes. Look at it this way: at least you learned early on that she's not worth it... But we're not all bitches, don't worry. :D

She sounds pretty rude, gives a whole new meaning to "The worst she cans say is no." Don't let it get to you, girls like that are stuck up, waaaay too into themselves. Don't listen to all these people telling you to dress up and learn to manipulate women, that's just fake. I'm sure just being yourself will work out eventually.

Oh buck up wimpy. Did you even SAY anything to her?

Never approached a girl?? How old are you?? 5??

Now, I've been too nervous to approacha girl before, but once you get her staring at you and you talking to you...your at the point of now return.

LOOL I actually laughed its really cute but funny..grow some balls next time you'll be able to get her :)

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Why are people saying YDI? She sounds like a b**ch that isn't worth your time anyway. I hope she gets a guy who refuses "no" for an answer and busts her ass. When she's cut down to size like that, hopefully she'll learn to treat people better. It's fine not to want to go out with someone or not to be attracted to someone. That said, it's as simple as saying "I'm sorry, I'm really not interested."