By me - 21/03/2013 10:25 - United Kingdom - Chichester

Today, I finally got to meet my boyfriend's parents; it turns out that his mum is my therapist. I've just spent an entire morning telling her how confused I am about my sexuality. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Why are you carrying on with the relationship, taking it to the next level of meeting the family, if you can easily go on for an hour questioning your sexuality? It sounds like you're leading the guy on until you figure yourself out. Maybe stop seeing him, but keep seeing his mom.

maybe if you guys are that serious you should be able to talk to your boyfriend about it too

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seems like you might should have connected their last names...

Steve95401 49

Not necessarily. She probably goes by her maiden name in her professional life.

caysters 12

Ever heard of divorce and remarriage? My moms last name is different from mine. She changed hers when she remarried after divorcing my dad. So, their last names don't at all have to match.

TheElBurrrito 21

That all depends on what kind of services she would like to offer. It can get a little pricy but if you bundle, you save.

onorexveritas 23

Well maybe it won't be too bad since she already kind of knows you.

maybe u break it off with him intill u decide

BurumaB 2

F the therapist's life, I would not want you dating my son. I've witnessed firsthand how ppl who are confused about their sexuality end up hurting others. If you're so confused then you shouldn't even be dating, you need to figure out some things about yourself first. YDI.

OP, take it from someone who struggled for years with their sexuality- break it off with this guy now. You're only going to wind up hurting yourself as well as this guy and neither of you deserve to hurt over something like this. It's difficult and scary but taking the time to figure yourself out is the best thing you'll ever do.

HeadlessSparrow 20

Hey look on the bright side, you met your boyfriend's mom before your boyfriend even introduced her to you. But still, if you're confused about your sexuality then you should get it "unconfused" before any damage is done to your boyfriend

Hope you didn't tell your therapist that your bf's mom is a total bitch or anything like that.

It has taken me years to figure out who I am and I'm still doing so. Just be open with your boyfriend. Everyone has to figure themselves out in many different ways as they grow up. Just be sure that he's aware of your personal journey/challenge and that he's supportive. I wish you luck!