By iTried - 28/01/2016 12:12 - United States - Houston

Today, I found out my best friend was cheating on her boyfriend. After confronting her boyfriend and showing him proof, he responded with denial and didn't believe me. Now my whole circle of friends not only think I'm trying to start a rumor, but that I'm a home wrecker. FML
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You deserved it 8 786

Same thing different taste

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deathstroke990 22

if she's your best friend, why not approach her about it first? instead of directly going to the boyfriend

This is usually a lose-lose situation. Although, I don't know why you confronted the boyfriend instead of your best friend. She's the one cheating, and should be responsible for admitting the truth to her boyfriend.

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If I was cheated on, I wouldn't care where I'd hear it from, as long as someone would tell me. Imagine a situation where everybody else knows about it except for you.. You should be able to trust your friends in situations like these.

getoveritbruh 2

Snitches get stitches. But srrsly though, you should have gone to your friend first

Snitch ass bitch. That's what you get for not minding your own.

I agree. Why are you running to her boyfriend when SHE is your "best friend". That's messed up. Definitely seems like you have ulterior motives.

Wyrmflight 13

how dare you care about someone else's feelings when your 'best friend' does something terrible. clearly decent people believe anything is ok as long as someone close to them does it.

You are a shitty person and snotty friend. Yes cheating is wrong but so is stirring the shit pot. Revealing something told to you in confidence is just as bad as cheating. I hope you lost a friend because you deserve it. Learn your place and stay in it. Best friends are the people we can tell we cheated and we expect them to keep it between the two of us. That's something sacred. Your just plain ol trash. Worse than the cheater. You deserve to eat shit. You stirred the shit pot so lick the motha ******* spoon. Serves you right everyone's against you now. You did it to yourself. Bitch

How do you know that the OP best friend told her she was cheating her boyfriend?

Let this be a lesson to you: don't get involved in other people's relationships

PL0WW 20

You don't snake your best friend like that, what's wrong with you?? I'm not surprised people don't trust you now..

I have to vote with the OP on this one. This whole 'best friends bury bodies' thing is ridiculous. No, best friends help their friends to STOP MAKING DECISIONS THAT WIND YOU UP WITH DEAD BODIES. You convince them to turn themselves in or you turn them in yourself, for their own good, you don't make it worse by covering up the crime; that would make you an accomplice in the crime! Which actually serves as a good metaphor for this situation. Helping them cover up their infidelity isn't necessarily being a good friend. It's making the secret your fault too. If it comes out and the boyfriend's upset, now it's your fault too because you knew the whole time and you told NO ONE about it. It's not necessarily OP's fault for telling the boyfriend and showing him the proof. She clearly cared about her friend's relationship, and the feelings about the boyfriend. Not necessarily that she had any interest in him, but that she was trying to be a good friend. After that point, it should be up to the couple to move past this together now it's out in the open. He's clearly not reacting well to the news, but the ball's in their court now. It's up to them.