By iTried - 28/01/2016 12:12 - United States - Houston

Today, I found out my best friend was cheating on her boyfriend. After confronting her boyfriend and showing him proof, he responded with denial and didn't believe me. Now my whole circle of friends not only think I'm trying to start a rumor, but that I'm a home wrecker. FML
I agree, your life sucks 22 576
You deserved it 8 786

Same thing different taste

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deathstroke990 22

if she's your best friend, why not approach her about it first? instead of directly going to the boyfriend

This is usually a lose-lose situation. Although, I don't know why you confronted the boyfriend instead of your best friend. She's the one cheating, and should be responsible for admitting the truth to her boyfriend.

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You turned on your best friend? Not cool.

Can you blame them? You went behind your best friends back to rat her out to her boyfriend. Better option would have been to talk to her about it first and let her deal with it. It's her relationship, not yours.

cheshireau 26

Why did you tell him and not confront her? This reminds of a similar situation with a former friend. The friend was a guy, he's a known cheater, but when she told the girlfriend, she got accused of trying to break them up. Shit hits the fan when you get involved in something that has nothing to do with you.

VampObsessed 16

I'm a little at a loss of why you told the boyfriend. You might not agree with what she's doing but she's your best friend. I wouldn't betray my best friend. Sorry.

I had some girls who messaged me telling me my boyfriend was cheating on me. It turned out they were making up fake texts messages and sending them to me and I got to the point I called the cops and they admitted it. They just had a thing for him. If I was OP I would've stayed out of it.

whether she is or isn't cheating...sounds like OP is trying to swoop in on the boyfriend

If he can just deny it and everyone believe him then you didn't have proof. Look up the definition of proof

Did you just tell on your best friend? Wauw.. Thats pure karma coming your way

Yeah it's wrong that she cheated, but being that she's your best friend, you probably should have talked to her and allowed her to be the one to tell him or not. People make mistakes, and you have no right to try and ruin her relationship because of it.

Op did NOT try to ruin the relationship, their friend did that all on their own.

Not your freakin business. Maybe they are in an open relationship, but don't want everyone (or anyone) to know that. Maybe they are not that uptight with the morals, but still prome to jealousy, and have an agreement sort of 'if you cheat, make sure I don't find out'. YDI big time.