By ohdearyme - 09/01/2015 12:06 - United Kingdom - Guildford

Today, I found out my boyfriend was on a dating website. He came up as an ideal match for my sister. FML
I agree, your life sucks 37 447
You deserved it 3 120

Same thing different taste

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If he was on the site prior to their relationship and forgot, that's also reasonable.

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kirbs19 37

That really sucks! Maybe you should join the site and see if your a match too!

EddiesGirl 14

Yea every single one of my bfs have always been on dating sites and have cheated on me. guys are terrible

Snooping? Presumably she found out about his profile because her sister told her. It's not like she went digging through his internet history. Hopefully it's an inactive profile, but it's still awkward to be told your boyfriend would make a good match for your sister. Maybe it's a good thing though, if OP and sister have a lot in common!

So, I take it your sister was on the dating site and once he came up as a match, she notified you that he was on it as well. I would ask questions first... maybe an old account or maybe he's still looking.

That could be something he's owner long before he met you and hasn't checked it since he's been dating you. Besides, you have any idea on how many people lie on that crap? Stay confident and I hope it works out for ya'.

ONE THING: But what if you had an account? Would you also be an ideal partner? We don't know that... honestly, the website is the one that paired them. So don't feel too angry at your boyfriend, OP. And as most others are saying, it could have been an old account. Give him the benefit of the doubt if you choose to confront the issue. -teamnikster outtie

It baffles me that my earlier comment in response to another commenter says the same thing and is upvoted 33 times, yet somehow this one is downvoted. What the heck?

Why did you even give a shit? It's just a site OP

A site where SINGLES go to meet other singles. Obviously he wasn't single so why would he need to be on it?

You don't see why it's a problem for her boyfriend to be secretly looking for other partners on a dating website?