By Anonymous - 20/11/2015 14:43 - United States - Tyler

Today, I found out my fiancé is already married when his wife showed up at my door. That's about the same time she found her husband is gay, and that Ashley can be a man's name. FML
I agree, your life sucks 30 203
You deserved it 2 812

Same thing different taste

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That was a train wreck from start to finish.

Well, that would make for an interesting reality show.

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Wow I'm sorry OP I know that you love him but I really hope that you guys don't stay together after this, he was hiding a whole and completely different life from you not to mention how did he think that you guys were get married? since he is already married. I don't know who proposed to who however, if he proposed to you then he had NO right since he knew he was still married and if you proposed to him then he had NO business at accepting your proposal knowing that he had a wife, I truly hope everything works out for you please give us a follow-up. Good luck OP

Ross from Friends would approve of this!

leogachi 15

@15 Why? Ross never cheated on anyone.

All joking aside, this is a pretty sad situation. Sounds like OP'S fiancé has some things to work through but now there are 3 people with a broken heart. This scenario is more reminiscent of Brokeback Mountain than Friends. Sad. Best of luck to all!

maybe he's not gay. he could be bisexual or pansexual too. either way, he's an asshole

True, very true. However, if he was gay, it would give a very powerful reason for why he was cheating on his wife. Still a bad thing to do, and he wasn't being honest with anyone, so my sympathy has its limits. The OP and the man's wife have most of my sympathy.

F both of your lives. Team up and destroy that man.

joebo3 5

Does not sound fun I hope all gets sorted out.

**** that guy. Don't get mad or cause drama just leave him and hopefully she divorces his ass. People like that have no heart and talking to him will just hurt you more.

Sandman2015 12

Blergh? Sorry to hear that OP. Hope you dumped the cheating ******.

nobody3597 6

So I'm guessing the writer name is Ashley since the wife found out her husband is gay at the same time the fiance found out that he has a wife.

Yes, op is Ashley and found out the man he was engaged with is married to a woman- who found out her husband was gay at the same time.

That is ******* tragic and I am so sorry you had to deal with this OP! Hopefully you kicked that asshole to the kerb.

Actually kerb is correct given 41 is from the UK, and "curb" is the American/Canadian English only spelling.

Sounds like it's an fml moment for the wife too. Sorry op.