Because society has made "losing" virginity into this huge deal and put a lot of pressure on all genders to perform. This can lead to lack of arousal due to nervousness because they believe they may disappoint their partner or for a variety of other reasons. Not everyone is ready from the get-go and some people have trouble their first (or even for future times). It's really quite normal in males and females alike. Shaming them/making fun of them for it only increases the anxiety around sex and can make the issue worse. It's better to look at it as a "sexual debute" and as something silly and fun. Sex is supposed to be fun. Not serious and a major deal to the point the person gets anxious.

Easy for you to say as a virgin. Let's see how your first time goes.

Because, surprisingly for you, an erection not only relies in sexual arousal to happen, we also need to be in the mood for it, not only this but if we are under the influence of alcohol or drugs, we don't be getting it up.

#15: Men are not sex machines. Our penises reflect our moods, and every guy can have floppy-issues if he's nervous or upset or tired.

Yes, propose the use of a drug that can have adverse side effects, such as an erection that lasts longer than 4 hours. In such a case, if untreated, you can lose a portion of your manhood.

Nearly a 25% of sufferers of Erectile Dysfunction are under 40. There's no shame in getting help for it! Sucks that there's a stigma.

38- Viagra isn't the only drug with adverse side effects. Most drugs do, and some can be scary. But usually the pros outweigh the cons and people see few side effects.

Yeah, they are way to cheesey for me...