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Walk away from this relationship without regret. You deserve better. You did all you can to save it and sadly, it cannot be fixed. Find somebody that will appreciate you, cherish you, and return the affection and loyalty that you clearly are capable of giving but haven't been able to have reciprocated current relationship.
What. The. *******. ****. I can't even imagine how you're feeling OP, but I would definitely call them both out on it... Sorry, OP. :(
He needs counseling
he needs to your ex husband.
get your lawyer OP
absolutely, op will get alimony :)
I really hope you're fixing that. He just needs to realize that the best woman in his life is actually trying to help the relationship. You deserve happiness too, you know.
How do you know it wasn't her attitude that put him in the cheating mood? They were in therapy for their marriage, I doubt either of them were the "best" they'll meet in their lives.
If you're maried, you make a commitment. Just because your significant other goes and makes you mad, doesn't mean you need to sleep with another woman. It means you need to work out your marriage. Marriage is suppose to be a bound between 2 people, who love each other until the end, It feels like people don't respect that anymore
Something she did or said might have upset him, but he still made the decision to sleep with someone who was not his wife. Cheating is always a choice, and no one can MAKE you do it. If the husband tries to blame OP for his cheating (like you are), then their marriage is in a LOT of trouble because he seems to not have any sense of personal responsibility. Also, just because they are in therapy doesn't mean they aren't right for each other. They might have gone into it with some issues they didn't know how to resolve, and just needed help. Then it turned into this.
You can either one up him and sleep with two people from this group or you can call his ass out and divorce him in front of everyone. Sorry OP!
Tell the other woman's husband!!!
And the woman doesn't even have the excuse of not knowing he was married. I would imagine that she is too. Either way, both of them are seriously shitty people.
If nothing else, tell her husband. Cheaters are the worst, and I'm sorry you had to go through this.
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Ex-husband? Hopefully.
Think its time to admit it just won't work out. What a jerk.