By semokco - 14/05/2015 18:59 - United States - Seminole

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Today, I found out my wife confided in a coworker that she wants to sleep with him, because our marriage is loveless and sexless. News to me. FML
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semokco tells us more.

Howdy! Op here. So nice of all of you that assume that I'm not doing my part. Let me say: I am. Our marriage is not sexless, I do express and have expressed my love in creative and whole ways. Our marriage is not "sexless"- there is a possible pregnancy, ATM.

Top comments

Give her the news of a marriage-less relationship.

That is so messed up on many levels. I am so sorry OP! I would say try counseling if you desire to, but I know from experience that it's always easier said than done to make a spouse work on marriage; especially when it sounds like she's already moving on. :(

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Wait till she cheats so you can get everything in the divorce.

TomeDr 24

My ex told my cousin that we were having problems. Unfortunately, he didn't tell ME. Nor did I realize that the "problem" was that he fell for someone else with big boobs.

Hope for your sake that she's not pregnant

I love how people say "divorce her".. as if it's that simple and easy to do with no immediate and long-term consequences.

I think people understand that, but what are you saying? Op should stay married to someone who doesn't love him and is willing to cheat on him because divorce is hard to go through?

gintwinsmoore 20

needs follow up here...how did you find this out? Did the other man tell you this or did she tell you this or what???

I saw the whole conversation myself. It was not faked or bait.

unicornruler 16

I am going through something very similar, you have my sympathy OP. It will take time to deal with things, no matter which way they go. I hope the best for YOU

MrZsDad 19

i say talk to a lawyer now. make sure all your affairs are in order and she doesn't take you through the financial ringer.

GrapeJuice67 17

Ouch. Try and talk to her about it? Maybe try some marriage counseling, as this situation shows that you and your wife need to seriously communicate.