By semokco - 14/05/2015 18:59 - United States - Seminole
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Howdy! Op here. So nice of all of you that assume that I'm not doing my part. Let me say: I am. Our marriage is not sexless, I do express and have expressed my love in creative and whole ways. Our marriage is not "sexless"- there is a possible pregnancy, ATM.
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chef4money
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Any time you open up about your bad love life to a single co-worker or friend of the opposite sex, you are sending the signal that you are up for grabs. I'm sorry you had to hear about that talk op, that really is a shitty situation.
That's sad...
Atalia
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I agree, your wife sucks. :p
Seems like your wife has some growing up to do. Even if she IS unhappy with the amount of sex you are having, or the marriage in general, infidelity is not how you solve your marriage problems. You solve your marriage problems by growing a pair and talking to your spouse. Also, don't let ANYONE tell you its your fault for "not having sex with her enough" or other such nonsense, because it is absolutely not your fault. Good luck, OP!
sleep with someone then divorce her asap
MzZombicidal
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Dumbest advice ever.
OP, time for a divorce. If the wife is lying about what is going on to other people to get attention then there is no respect for you.
If she feels something is missing, some this IS missing. That's a pretty significant thing to say.
If she says something is missing, something IS missing. That's a pretty significant thing to say.
Yeah. That was really unclassy of her. That must have been very painful for you to hear. It is possible though that some work needs to be put into your relationship, and it's most likely both of your faults. Everyone is attracted to other people, but her taking that step is dangerous. Maybe this is a good opportunity for you guys to open up communication and become the kind of people that you both want and need.
What a chum, find a new woman
did the coworker tell you and if so was he trying to be a dick about it or to help you?
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Give her the news of a marriage-less relationship.
That is so messed up on many levels. I am so sorry OP! I would say try counseling if you desire to, but I know from experience that it's always easier said than done to make a spouse work on marriage; especially when it sounds like she's already moving on. :(