That's called a keep-a-nigga-baby.

if I understood you correctly, they wouldve been aborted...hence not alive to be upset that their parents chose abortion.

Use a condom, idiot. If you're allergic to latex, there are substitutes. The pill isn't 100% effective, and as you've found out, you can't always trust your partner to take it. Even if it's forgotten by accident. I've no sympathy for you. Yes, it sucks, but it's your fault.

YDI for not acknowledging the fact that most women are perfectly willing to sneak, lie, and backstab to get what they want. Here's hoping you learned your lesson, and are better prepared for the next time something like this happens to you. And, oh yes, there will be a next time.

maybe you shld be less forgetful

Last time I checked, if you (as a guy) don't want kids, there are things you can do yourself to prevent that, and not just rely on your girlfriend being on the pill. Sorry, dude, but you kind of deserve it.

YDI for thinking you could trust something that bleeds for 7 days and doesn't die. Enjoy being married to a devious psychotic bitch.

YDI!! If u didn't want kids you should have used a condom instead of putting your trust in a girl to always take her pill. Some of the blame is on you.

birth control for a man: condom, getting snipped. birth control for a woman: pills, shots, conmdom, rods, that thing you insert, ect ect. hmmmm who has more as for the " god is mad at you for abortion thing" how do you know? did god speak to you( crazy). tell you what god said to me "abort the crumb crunchers." prove he didn't say that to me YOU CANT!

@167 and many others. Remember this the next time you decide to use the "women have been having children for hundreds of years as young as twelve years old" argument. When girls have sex too young, (12, 13, 14, 15...) it causes horrible consequences. Just because they have their period, or think that they are ready for sex, does not mean that they are ready physically to have children. Their bodies are still developing, so it causes many complications. I am working right now in a hospital in Bangladesh where many of the village women get married off as young as seven years old, as well as grew up in a family where most of the girls had children at very young ages. I can first handedly give you information about problems I have seen from girls having babies too young, as well as names, stories, and hell, if you wanted I could probably track down some surgical photos for you. Younger mothers have, on average, more babies with a low birth weight, which can cause health complications for the child. Younger women also experience higher rates of infant death than women who have children at a later age. Ex. Obstetric fistula. This is a complication that comes from too much stress during pregnancy of young girls and women who are too small. What happens is a hole tears between the bladder and the ******, causing urine to leak. No, it's not pretty. Modern medial care in first world countries does provide safer situations for birth and pregnancy, but not everything can be helped, and those that do often still require painful surgery. However, it is only recently, and in the very richest countries (USA, Canada, England, Australia...)that this medical care is available, so not the majority of people even this year. This is not even getting into the emotional and psychological consequences.