By Jessica - 21/10/2009 18:31 - United Kingdom

Today, I found out who the father of my sister's 4 year old son is. My husband of 7 years. FML
I agree, your life sucks 67 369
You deserved it 3 471

Same thing different taste

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Wow. That sucks. And this is the first time I was ever first. No one cares. Let the replies to this post begin.

Sorry your husband and sister are such ******.

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Just curious: did you two stop having sex four years ago, or did you decide that you'd rather limit sex to once a month.. beginning four years ago?

You know what dumbass? Even if she never slept with him again, the CORRECT course of action for him to pursue if he was REALLY that freaking unhappy would have been divorce. Not sleeping with her loser sister...not only that but IMPREGNATING the idiot with his spawn. The LEAST he could have done would have been to offer to pay for the abortion. Or to have come clean with his wife and offered her a divorce and healthy alimony payments for the PAIN he caused her by doing such a selfless hateful act. He earned his place in hell.

I don't understand why everyone is pitching alimony. He'll pay child support. She can get a job to support herself. He shouldn't have to support her while she sits on her ass when they're not even together anymore. Sure, he was a douche. I'm just against the idea of alimony in general.

mekeskidi_fml 0

# 65, Are you promoting abortion? You just earned your place in hell.

Do your backward preaching elsewhere #81

janise 2

You are blaming her for her husband cheating? People who make excuses for cheaters (save some extreme situation like abuse) are just as bad if not worse than cheaters.

You know #57, you are a moron. There are men out there who just do this sort of thing. It makes them sleazeballs, but there you have it. It doesn't have anything to do with how often his wife slept with him. When you say I DO, you enter into a contract, some would say a holy contract, but that isn't my thing. You enter into a LEGAL contract, to be with that person, and that person ONLY, until such a time as you either die, or divorce. If you are not happy with a wife, divorce her and pay her alimony because you are such an asshole that you can actually claim to not be happy with the woman who bears your children and keeps your home. You idiot. You enter into an agreement to be together until death. Period. If you can't deal withthe idea of being with someone that long, and you are really that freaking immature, then don't bother getting married. Have fun growing old all alone and make sure and watch as all of your married friends get taken care of by their kids. OP, that really sucks. Divorce him and cut off the sister from your life. She is so not worth the time.

Looks like you're just the ugly sister. I'm sorry, OP. Things like that happen. Get a divorce, and hope you get anything elsewhere.

I'm really sorry that your mom did all that crack whilst pregnant with you, but just because you have an unfortunate, gross mental defect doesn't mean you need to project your own insecurities onto others! Some on now, silly little "pimpin88", we thought you knew better! You see, dear little one, there are a lot of men in this world who will cheat on their wives, whether they "get sex from them every night" or not. But even if a woman isn't sleeping with her husband every night, the husband is in no way entitled to cheat, (much less with his wife's sister!) Cheating is wrong, & it is also wrong to think that the actions of one person can be at all held responsible for their partner's infidelity. Adorable little "pimpin88", these are grown-up lessons for a grown-up world. Some day, when your mind has developed beyond that of a pea to that of a walnut (God willing!), you will understand these important adult lessons. Until then, we'll forgive the stupid, false bullshit that comes out of that cute little mouth!

I'm really sorry that your mom did all that crack whilst pregnant with you, but just because you have an unfortunate, gross mental defect doesn't mean you need to project your own insecurities onto others! Some on now, silly little "pimpin88", we thought you knew better! You see, dear little one, there are a lot of men in this world who will cheat on their wives, whether they "get sex from them every night" or not. But even if a woman isn't sleeping with her husband every night, the husband is in no way entitled to cheat, (much less with his wife's sister!) Cheating is wrong, & it is also wrong to think that the actions of one person can be at all held responsible for their partner's infidelity. Adorable little "pimpin88", these are grown-up lessons for a grown-up world. Some day, when your mind has developed beyond that of a pea to that of a walnut (God willing!), you will understand these important adult lessons. Until then, we'll forgive the stupid, false bullshit that comes out of that cute little mouth!

Aww, i really hope you don't forgive your sister or your husband. If they could do that to you and lie to you about it for 4 years then neither of them are worth it. Since they obviously don't give a shit about you, you should not give a shit about them. Move on, find someone who is worthy of your love and never look back.

morgan020 0

does anyone feel bad for the child? I mean he has a nasty cheating father and ***** for a mother and a pissed off aunt that prolly can't stand to be around any of them anymore but he's prolly all confused wondering what he did wrong just because his parents are ******* idiots.