have you ever seen a civilian couple cheat? Why generalize military couples? are they the only people who cheat? WOW, I didn't know that, hmm..guess I better get on board then, cuz I sure as hell have not ever cheated on my husband/soldier (and never EVER would dream of it) Why are people so negative, why do they have to judge all of us military wives by the bad ones, can't people focus on positive ones? People who are in the military and cheat, would cheat no matter what, obviously they are just that kind of person. It has nothing to do with the military, and everything to do with who that person is.

Also, for every cheating military spouse I know, I know literally 100+ more who are faithful.

Well sorry but its true, especially if your stationed over seas. Not saying all wives are like that but more than half are. And its really not their fault, not acusing them of being ***** or what not but if you look at the picture like I stated before. Its takes alot to hold a relationship together especially if you do not have kids and are over seas. The spouse has no one during a deployment, 6-12 month of not getting laid, no family. Friends maybe but still not the same, Believe me temptation is thier. Not only that but when they reunite, the chemistry isnt thier as it once was. Got to start from scratch to rebuild it. Some just dont work out because they rush into it without looking at the whole picture. And not only wives cheat. they did it to themsleves.

LOL, I would like to know where you got your statistics from, that more than half of military spouses are unfaithful...really, I want to see those facts. And you don't have to tell me what its like to go through a deployment, I know what its like, I have been there, and still have NEVER thought about cheating on my husband, nor my husband on me. If you are not a military spouse, then you have absolutely NO clue what it is really like. My husband and I have even stronger relationships after each deployment! We have NEVER had to start from scratch, and no we don't have children yet. I hate it when people who aren't living this like ASSume they know what its like. We all know what happens when we ASSume though don't we? And you obviously have NO clue what you are talking about. People think they know, but unless you live it you have no idea.

Look it up, its a no brainer. When you see that their creating programs for spouses to reconnect after each deployment, they aint doing it just for the hell of it. Their is a problem, and congrats to you as you are not one of those. Like I said not all do it, Its mainly those who get married very young or not knowing their spouse long enough who fall into the category. http://www.24-7pressrelease.com/press-release/military-divorce-rates-on-the-rise-108683.php

I know you didn't say all spouses, but you did say more than half...Where in that article does it say more than 50 percent of military spouses cheat? Besides, the article you provided only has to do with divorce rate, that really has nothing to do with statistics of cheating spouses. Not every divorce is the result of an unfaithful spouse.

I'm dual military and if my husband and I can keep it in our pants and our legs closed for 2 YEARS of being apart I think everyone else has the capacity to do the same. They're just not committed enough to their marriage to care. And, no, we don't have kids either.

w..w..wow man. that's just frickin' cold to have happen. wow I feel really bad for u man. did any good come out of this dark story? OP: that really sucks man. i'm just a tad ashamed of some women. oh well. when life gives you lemons u maek lemonade even if the lemons are bitter as hell, sometims something good happens and sweetens it up. oh well at least they're curable ones and not like AIDS but seriously FYL times 27

Wow, that's absolutely horrible! I hope you at least used those files to make sure she didn't get any money or anything else...