notice all the guys are saying it's immature and the girls are saying he's okay to do that...like half these guys wouldn't want to protect the ones they love

What the shit is that shit? While it sounds dumb, people actually have more than one best friend, you know. I have about three. How does that work? Well, I love them equally, and I love them more than other friends. If she denied him, he needs to move the **** on and be a good friend instead of a jealous asshole. It's been three years, he REALLY needs to get over it. She can value his friendship. That's not seeking attention, that's just her remembering he is, or was, a good friend and doesn't want to lose him AS A FRIEND. If he can't get the **** over her, he needs to back down and leave until he can, for the sake of their friendship. If he still wants to be friends, that is. I dunno about you, but I'd rather have love denied with friendship kept alive rather than either being left in the cold or leaving because I was too much of a selfish twat. And seriously? If your best friend admitted their feelings for you, would you go "**** you go away" if you didn't feel the same? So much for being best friends! That's basically what you're saying she should have done. If she never even knew... THEN SHE DIDN'T KNOW. Jealous asshole was too ******* slow. Oh, and hey, lots of best friends end up falling for their best friend. It's a pretty shitty situation, but to blame the person they fell for is a really douchey and childish thing to do. Suck it up. [edit] Hmm.. Comment switch

Bullshit she wanted to be friends. He was her backup for whenever she got shot down and that's the only reason she kept him around.

Really? You think so? After all this time, she planned ahead years into the future "If I keep him around, I have a date for homecoming in a few years"? Well, you've set the scheming-female stereotype on a whole new level. Believe it or not, people may genuinely want to keep their friends around, especially if they've proven their worth by attaining the title of "best"

It does happen that some girls keep best friends as backup. If she knew he liked her for all this time she should have told him to back off and not be as close friends with him untill he got over her, thats the best thing you can do for a friend. Haha but i guess if he was stuck in the friend zone it drove him crazy. Sucks to be you OP

It does happen that some girls keep best friends as backup. If she knew he liked her for all this time she should have told him to back off and not be as close friends with him untill he got over her, thats the best thing you can do for a friend. Haha but i guess if he was stuck in the friend zone it drove him crazy. Sucks to be you OP

21 says it all!!

Eh, The guys here need to harden the **** up. I agree with most of the girls comments so far on this one. pimpin88 is a twat noone listen to him. In response to what you have written, i myself really liked a girl that i had known for about a year. i liked her for about 6 months but didnt tell her. then she decided going out with one of my best mates was a good idea. It was, they had a great time. of course i minded but in the end it's better that they are happy. I could of spat the dummy and went off my nut about it, But i didnt because i knew it wouldnt get me anywhere i would of just lost 2 great friends. At this time she did not know that i liked her though. In the end we got really drunk and decided telling her was a good idea. turns out she liked me a real lot aswell but didnt think i would like her back so she didnt do anything about it. Anyways in the end it didnt work out with them and now i've been with her for 3 months and im loving it more and more every day. I'm only 16 and haven't had any real relationships just random sex at party's mainly. so 3 months is good for me =].

WTF??? WC.... take a cold shower....

lol, I never thought of it that way. Excuse me while I get my jaw broken...

Is this another one of your **** ideas Witchcraft?

Mmm. Now it is. :]

lolocaust! I sympathye though