That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard, and I'm a female. Girls do cum, it's called an ******. And discharge is white or yellowish, and that normally comes right before you have your period. (Sorry boys, I know you don't want to know that...) I don't know if you've ever gotten wet before (apparently not) because that is completely different liquid than 'discharge'. Girls do have a 'cum' type substance, it isn't sperm, obviously, but it's lubrication.

"Cum" in its noun form refers to semen, and only applies to males. "Cum" as a verb means "have an ******," and is gender-neutral. So everyone CAN cum, but only 50% of us HAVE cum.

exactly.

agreed 100% that guy's an asshole :/

Well, thankfully even nowadays some people don't throw those words around lightly. I've had boyfriends for more than 6 months and some of them I never said "I love you" to. Simply because I knew I wasn't gonna marry them and spend the rest of my life with them. But that doesn't mean I didn't have real feelings for them. I didn't say it to my husband for the first 4 months of our relationship either. Some people meet go on one or two dates and then call each other boyfriend/girlfriend which is completely fine, but that doesn't mean they have to love each other or say those words. Yes, they like each other and want to spend time together, but real love grows over time...especially when you're young it's just infatuation when you meet someone...and then when that fades you will discover whether you actually love someone or not...I have seen rare cases where people started dating and said I looe you and actually did end up getting married, so that stuff does exist...but it's rare...and most of the time it's people that are very mature (I'm not saying you have to be a certain age to be mature) and know how to work on a relationship and keep it alive.

Are you saying that if you don't plan on marrying someone then, by definition, you don't love them? Because if so, I completely disagree.

@Puolukka: I completely agree. Most of us have trouble discerning intimacy from love. I like to get to know girls as friends before starting something, and I won't even date one unless I think it can last.

@wafflemonger: you don't necessarily expect to marry them, but if you don't even believe that you could pursue the relationship that far (of course, people move, and shit happens), why bother taking it further than friendship? I'd assume you're in the relationship for the wrong reasons.

I didn't love my partner when we first started our relationship. I cared about him, but I didn't love him. He didn't love me either. Relationships don't start with love from the get go and it surprises me when people are baffled when someone admits they didn't tell their significant other "I love you" until X amount of time passed. Also, everyone's definition of love is different. The right time to admit love for one person might be too long or too short for another. This isn't a problem as long as you say what you mean when you tell someone you love them. Otherwise, people tend to assume your "I love you" is the same as theirs and it could cause problems.

When you can forgive your partner for every wrong, whether it's their flaws, cheating, emotional infidelity (which is by far worse than cheating) or a serious crime; if you value their life and happiness more than your own, and if you trust them enough to tell them anything, I'd call it love.

@MichaelExe, I think the way you learn whether you could pursue a relationship that far is by beginning one. Dating is how you learn what you want in a marriage partner, and whether a specific person meets those criteria.

"scared of a feeling" Yeah, the feeling of paying an enormous hotel bill!