I thumbed you down because you don't know how to use the reply button. Also because you assume anyone who disagrees with you is sexist. Also because your comment was stupid.

I believe boss should have kept his trap shut ..its only proper ..him being boss an all..husband probably told his life view before marrying..sh probably should have said something ..because its not everyday that you tell someone you used to strip ..but also I could understand if she might have loved him and didn't want to change his mind ..but in another matter they should have been prepared for anything to be thrown in the path..if they were truly ready for marriage ..

I was just gonna say I thumbed him down because he was being a ******, but you put it much more eloquently #32.

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28- You sound like a fifteen year old. Your argument is inane and loops in on itself in some ways. The idea you were portraying was so simple it could've been summed up in one or two sentences in a concise manner. "Withholding information is wrong, whether you are male or female." Is essentially what you took four poorly constructed paragraphs to write. Your aggressive tone, almost belittling of those you address, combined with your lacking phrase structure and weak, flat analogies, leave your argument, and comment, dead in the water. In summary, I'm sure I've had morning gas as articulate.

How is that stupid? Although the height example was probably not the best for this particular situation the concept still stands. You can't blame a person for wanting to know their spouse i.e. the person they are going to spend the rest of their life with. You don't have to tell everybody about your past but your spouse is the one exception. Even on a need to know basis your spouse needs to know such things.

How is what she did to get money for college relevant at all to keep a marriage long-standing?

I'm assuming you're using the app. Take your finger. Place it on the screen on the comment you wish to reply to. Slide it over. Place your finger on the "reply" icon. You're welcome.

Thanks yo

Yes good for her but, I do have to say, years of her being treated as a "sex object" did do some damage and instilled a lot of trust issues. She has a very difficult time being in a relationship because she's seen SO much in that-- world of fantasy. Sexually harassed? I know a lawyer. :P

While possible, everyone handles situations differently. You can't assume every ex-stripper has trust issues.

30:... Not sure if you're being sarcastic.. Or if you only think halfway through a though before saying it... You equated men lying about their height to get women, to woman lying about stripping to get husbands, an now you're saying it's good that they do? ERROR! ERROR!! ILLOGICAL! DOES NOT COMPUTE!!

That's awful! Don't you think that may be the reason she didn't want to tell him?

@43 So you want OP to prostitute out his wife to the boss for favors?

She *was a stripper, not a damn prostitute.

I wouldn't mind if my wife thought of me as her sex toy, something to show off.

And a lot of strippers perform sexual favors to clients. It's all about money in that business.

46, that's EXACTLY why she didn't want to say, most likely. And to 56, you aren't an already objectified woman, you and this woman are not comparable.

I know this seems like a douchbag comment but I actually see this as turning the situation into a possitive thing. i wouldn't just install it but maybe bring it up to your wife. tell her that youd really enjoy seeing a few of her moves and maybe youd return the favor just so she feels comfortable. you guys can laugh about it and it would spice up your sex life. its a win win... dont push it tho if she says no.